#basicneeds

[donnies-wrld]

i just want (need) an older brother to take care of me. help me tie my shoes, make sure i'm taking care of myself... force me to take breaks when i need to

force me onto his lap as he strokes my hair and runs his hands along my sides. helping me calm down after a long, stressful day. whispering to me about how good i've been as his hands travel down lower and lower-

[gggukniverse]

hiii is part 3 of basic needs gonna be the last part??

part 3 will definitely not be the end of the story. i still don't know if there will be actual full chapters after part 3 or just little drabbles but it's not gonna be the end !!

[littlebent-notbroken]

“They” being your parents, ex, friends, or whomever. They being the person in your life that made you believe your needs are conditional. Growing up, I recognized that my safety was dependent on my mom’s mood. Looking back on it the only word I can think of for my mother’s actions is “selfish.” Everything in the house was hers and she could take it away at any moment, depending on how she felt that day. I remember constantly hearing “you’re an ungrateful little bitch and I’m not going to buy groceries anymore. I’m just going to buy food for me and me alone. I was so much happier when I lived with my two cats. Don’t ever have kids, Marisa, they’re not worth the stress.” My earliest memory of this was when I was seven. My mom would use these threats of taking away food or taking the door off my bedroom or throwing out all my clothes into the driveway to “keep me in line,” to keep me submissive and under her control. To do what? I honestly don’t even remember. Looking back there’s just so much fear I just remember doing whatever she said to keep the peace. To this day I still look to my partner for permission to do seemingly normal things: turning on a light, listening to music, eating food. On one hand, it is important to be contentious and courteous—maybe the light will put a glare on the TV, maybe he doesn’t want to listen to music right now, maybe he was saving that food for later. On the other, I recognize I’m still relearning how to take up space in my own home. And every time I ask, he always replies “you don’t have to ask me; this is your home too.” And each time he says that I know he’s apologizing to my inner child that I even have to think for a second I need his permission to do something. #innerchildwork #reparenting #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #conditional #innerchildhealing #codependentnomore #cptsdrecovery #depressionrecocery #anxietyrelief #basicneeds #themotherwound #motherwound #emotionallyimmatureparents #cyclebreakers #generationaltrauma #youmatter (at San Francisco Bay Area) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLAeQz4DbAB/?igshid=1nf0osyddld5q

[wronghands1]

[neographics]

„Bad news. You can’t live here anymore.“ #art #illustration #rotring #rapidograph #ink #illustrationart #mandalorian #stwarwarsart #starwars #drawingoftheday #sketch #sketching #art #basicneeds #artofinstagram #artwork #creative #blackwork #pencil #artist #artistofinstagram #illustrate #themandalorian #starwarsday #maytheforce #may4th #maythe4thbewithyou https://www.instagram.com/p/B_wrtBRHjYq/?igshid=cuk4ujyqhoan

[gggukniverse]

are u going to do a part 3 of basic needs? OH MY GOD

yes !!! i'm working on it but it's taking longer than expected because i'm really busy, but i promise there will be a part 3 <3

[gggukniverse]

the second part for basic needs is taking me long bc i keep deleting and rewriting most of it to make it as perfect as it can be but let me tell you something... i keep GASPING at my own writing during the smut scene so i think you're gonna like it 🤭🤭

[gggukniverse]

it's ok about the whole "taking longer" to write basic needs!! no worries!! we will be waiting for it anyway!! take your time to do it, we know it's going to be SO good as always ^-^

thank u so much 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰