There are three types of men:
1.the ones who just spend without you asking or requesting and make it their business to help you.
2. The ones you have to communicate with and tell that you need “help”. Once they know they will do it with no issues .
3. The ones who are very emotional and want to feel needed. Either they are very sexual and flirt a lot or they are very like sappy and always want to talk or argue.
Lol I put these men in chronological order. In the hypergamous world the goal is to get man #1 or #2. It’s the easiest actually because they like women of quality who invest in themselves,have things going for themselves,beautiful,confident,have a personality etc. let me just break it down like this,don’t focus so much on the sugar baby/sugar daddy stuff. Whatever traits you would want to develop or be attracted to in the vanilla world still applies with these older or wealthier men. The whole point is for you to cultivate your self so that they are drawn to you period. It isn’t difficult for a man to spend money. You must be a trophy for yourself and invest in yourself before you can make somone else want to invest in you. Do you make jokes , do you call these men? Do you treat them like you would want to be treated or like your friend? I mean I really don’t know how else to explain it. Just think to yourself “if I were a rich young woman ,how would I act ?” Okay once you get that into your head , take it further. If I had a rich boyfriend or boyfriends how would I date ? It’s all about you,what is your vision? What do you want ? You want money , but what is your plan for it ? Where is your foundation? Just be what you want to attract literally. Then don’t settle until you get what you want.
We have gotten so caught up in verbiage that women are acting like this is a foreign concept so they must act like aliens to be with these men. Anyone can be a “sugar baby” just know how to date like a regular person!! Only date wealthy men, and they will spend their money on you. It’s very simple , when you approach this from a sugar baby angle. It won’t work for all of you because that is just one specific style of dating that works for some women. Maybe your style of dating is completely different but you still get the same result . You saying you want somone to spoil you but you shop at forever 21 and have never traveled , will make you look crazy. But maybe you saying “ I want to start my business after my management class this semester. I’m working on getting a 10k loan.” Will get him to give you 5k. Be genuine to yourself what do you care about ? Then create your approach, you cannot use other peoples empty words and think that it’s gonna land you a millionaire. Moral of the story is please have substance. And don’t ever be desperate, when you get money in a desperate way it will always disappear and you will create a cycle of poverty. When you get money in a peaceful way it will always multiply , it’s all about your vibration. I really want it of young women trying to get into this game to stop letting the money intimidate them and make them act crazy. It shows that you don’t believe in yourself and you feel like you will never be in a space of abundance. When you are sure of yourself and know that whether you are dating a baller or not you will be a rich bitch by force. You don’t send out desperate vibes and act weird. You know it’s coming so you don’t sweat it . Wealthy people are regular ass humans, money is just a material.
