Jun 13, 2017
Training yourself to be less of a perfectionist is such a painful thing, ‘cause by definition, it entails letting yourself fail, and be imperfect, which is what you’re so afraid of in the first place. you feel shitty about yourself when you succeed at letting yourself be number two, or three, or fifteen, because you’re not perfect, not number one. You feel shitty about yourself when you fail and fall back into your perfectionism, because you couldn’t even be perfect at not being a perfectionist and…wait no…fuck.