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My strengths???

How unfair things in life are.. those attributes that you thought to be your strengths, suddenly one day you realise they are nothing more than your biggest weaknesses that you are holding on to like holding onto the rope in deep waters..

How weird things go.. when someone one day just comes and tells you that what you thought you are made of, is nothing more than just a layer covering your true self .

How untrue life feels.. when your qualities or your nature that made you feel stronger, are nothing, nothing at all.. just negatives burning you from within...

How one day you are shown the true picture of who you can be and who you should be..

How simply you are just told that you are much more than this.. you are much more than what you show.. you are much more than what you are holding on to..

How slowly you are made to realise that though situations have made you feel that you have lost your true self, you are still there underneath.. just need to dust the superficial top layers..

How beautifully and how amazingly you are shown you can be strong, stronger than before, stronger than ever.. and that's all what it is all about... and all that I could be..

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Being Normal....

What is being normal exactly?

Can any one of us answer that question?

Is there a standard way that we are supposed to talk? or Is there a particular way for us to dress up? or Is there a certain way that we are supposed to behave to label one as a normal person?

And actually can there be a particular way to behave when every person judges and is judged differently?

Let's say, when someone acts silly, people tell him/her to act normal, but maybe being silly is considered normal for the one who is well, silly.

Now again, when someone talks loudly in a meeting or a party, he is asked to behave normal, but  maybe for some people talking loud is just normal.

So, how are we supposed to behave to consider normal beings?

Now, there are social norms, which are the rules and guidelines that are accepted or required in particular circumstances. Norms are the rules of behavior observed by society as acceptable. But, still there are certain exceptions.

For instance, a person is very kind and polite and likes helping others. Some people may observe this behavior to be good and normal while others may tell that this person is over doing it. So, it all comes down to one thing then. If in society's eyes, its normal then it is, but if they view it differently, then obviously it is not normal. So, then are we just supposed to live as the society wants us to???

Being normal... behaving as our society sees as the correct way of behaving, doing what is considered normal by them....

Or Do you desire to break these boundaries and do something that defines you and just you???

It is completely your choice.. whether to live a normal life, having a normal routine, living with the 'normal society rules'....

Or Living like no one else had lived before and defining your own new way...

As Jodie Foster said:

" Normal is not something to aspire to, it's something to get away from."

There is no clear definition of normal. Everyone has their own definition of normal.

For me, NORMAL is living life as we want, doing as we desire. There may be some barriers and few ups and downs, some days you may be full of life and some days you may feel sad and lonely, some days you may thank the universe to give you this life and some days you may question your own sanity. It is living a  life that is familiar to you but not a life that may make you forget who you are or becomes suffocating to live.

But maybe I do not really know what normal is, maybe I will learn it someday or maybe not.. till then why don't I just Be Me...

[beingyouposts]

Being Normal.....

What is being normal exactly?

Can any one of us answer that question?

Is there a standard way that we are supposed to talk? or Is there a particular way for us to dress up? or Is there a certain way that we are supposed to behave to label one as a normal person?

And actually can there be a particular way to behave when every person judges and is judged differently?

Let's say, when someone acts silly, people tell him/her to act normal, but maybe being silly is considered normal for the one who is well, silly.

Now again, when someone talks loudly in a meeting or a party, he is asked to behave normal, but  maybe for some people talking loud is just normal.

So, how are we supposed to behave to consider normal beings?

Now, there are social norms, which are the rules and guidelines that are accepted or required in particular circumstances. Norms are the rules of behavior observed by society as acceptable. But, still there are certain exceptions.

For instance, a person is very kind and polite and likes helping others. Some people may observe this behavior to be good and normal while others may tell that this person is over doing it. So, it all comes down to one thing then. If in society's eyes, its normal then it is, but if they view it differently, then obviously it is not normal. So, then are we just supposed to live as the society wants us to???

Being normal... behaving as our society sees as the correct way of behaving, doing what is considered normal by them....

Or Do you desire to break these boundaries and do something that defines you and just you???

It is completely your choice.. whether to live a normal life, having a normal routine, living with the 'normal society rules'....

Or Living like no one else had lived before and defining your own new way...

As Jodie Foster said:

" Normal is not something to aspire to, it's something to get away from."

There is no clear definition of normal. Everyone has their own definition of normal.

For me, NORMAL is living life as we want, doing as we desire. There may be some barriers and few ups and downs, some days you may be full of life and some days you may feel sad and lonely, some days you may thank the universe to give you this life and some days you may question your own sanity. It is living a  life that is familiar to you but not a life that may make you forget who you are or becomes suffocating to live.

But maybe I do not really know what normal is, maybe I will learn it someday or maybe not.. till then why don't I just Be Me...