#bestlove

[saba2106]

The best love is unexpected. You don’t just pick someone and cross your fingers it’ll work out. You meet them by fate and it’s an instant connection, and the chemistry share is way above your head. You just talk and notice the way their lips curve when they smile or the color of their eyes and all at once you know you’re either lucky or screwed.

[rememberebonyjanice]

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My self-love journey is ongoing. Some days I love myself and am impressed with myself to the point of borderline arrogance. I'm obnoxious and annoyed that you don't know how perfect and amazing I am. Some days I look in the mirror and I see a knuckle. Or an elbow. Or a knee cap. No, I'm not talking about the body parts - I'm saying there are days when I think I look like an ashy knuckle, elbow, or a knee cap. It's a whole thing. Pray! Lol! . . . But a thing that I have always been capable of is watching a sunset on my own. Me... I am my own Beloved and there is no greater skill that I have than that of giving me sweetness, and gentleness, and silence, and long walks, and movie dates, and dinner, and dessert before dinner, and candles, and baths, and #MarvinGaye on repeat at midnight for kids reason and also for reasons, and whatever else it is that I need to feel less like a knuckle and more like my #genius self - more consistently. . . . I haven't been in a seriously committed relationship in 9 years. I remember when my last relationship ended, this elder at the church I went to told me to get over my ex by moving on to the next. LOL! That is some ole toxic advice if I've ever heard it. I didn't mean to be single for 9 years but I'm so glad I knew that she was wrong and that it was good for me to heal through before I moved on. I am such a marvelous version of myself. I'm so glad that I get to live this life and this calling and this gift and this grace. And I'm also so grateful that I had sense enough to begin the real work of healing before I enter another long term relationship/partnership because I get to manifest my beloved from this version of myself and not the version of myself that thought the best had come when surely the best was yet to come. . . . (deep exhale) More than anything, I'm glad I had sense enough to not wait until someone else decided to love me to love me because even on the days when I look like an ashy elbow I still know I am #worthy and worth all the good love that God (&me) has to give. #HappyValentinesDay "Treat yoself!" #TheFreePeopleProject #SelfLove #BestLove #Valentines #ILoveMyself #ZoraNealeHurston #SlowDance #SummerWalker https://www.instagram.com/p/B8kWm6pppIl/?igshid=1w94t3zwae7wu

[black-couples]

✨What we’ve been through no one else knows. All that matters is how far this goes, and it’ll go until it starts again.✨♥️ • • • Thanks for sharing your beautiful photo with us. Blessings on your union. @justtricia13 • #engagementphotos #BlackLove #BestLove #blackexcellence #King #Queen #onadatekindanervous #Bride #Groom #engagementring #engagementsession #wow #abouttobesomeoneswife #dasqwazy #universityoftampa #vsdiamond https://www.instagram.com/p/BwGj2tdAiXx/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=pa52wc4esoh8

[zoosk]

That's what we all want, right? 😊

[hdyanaa-blog]

Cinta Pertamaku

Cinta adalah perasaan kasih sayang kepada yang lain. Cinta adalah hal yang mampu dirasakan tanpa tahu wujudnya. Cinta adalah luapan rasa pada sesuatu atau hal dan cinta adalah luapan perasaan yang menyenangkan. Entah bagaimana aku mendeskripsikan cinta pertamaku. Tapi yang aku tahu adalah bagaimana rasanya, yakni perasaan yang mendorong untuk saling menjaga. Perasaan yang menggiring untuk rela berkorban. Perasaan yang penuh kasih sayang tanpa pamrih dan perasaan yang tak pernah akan melukai. Cinta pertamaku adalah keluargaku. Keluarga yang penuh dengan cinta yang membuatku jatuh pertama kali. Cinta ibu yang selalu menjagaku tanpa keluh lelah Cinta yang menggiring ayah berkorban memenuhi kebutuhanku tanpa bayaran Cinta mereka berdua yang penuh kasih sayang tanpa pamrih Itulah cinta pertamaku yang tak akan pernah melukaiku.

Keluarga adalah tempatku mengenal cinta, tempat yang tepat kujatuhkan rasa tanpa ragu. Keluarga adalah ruang yang sesak dengan cinta.

Aku tahu cinta pertamaku tumbuh sejak aku dilahirkan. Tangisan pertamaku di dunia adalah pertanda awalan aku dipenuhi rasa. Sejak itu bibit cinta ditanam kemudian dipupuk tumbuh subur bersemi hingga saat ini. Keluarga adalah ruang yang penuh cinta dan di sanalah cinta terus bersemi, cinta pertama yang tak pernah pudar. Cinta yang tak akan pernah patah bahkan cinta yang selalu ada hingga akhir hayat.

Kujatuhkan rasaku bertubi-tubi pada titik dimana aku jatuh cinta pertama kalinya. Kepada mereka yang kusebut keluarga. Kutegaskan janji bahwa cintaku tak akan punah oleh zaman dan cinta yang tak akan pernah terganti.

Aku tak perlu khawatir untuk menerjunkan hatiku kepada cinta pertamaku. Sebab cinta pertama ini adalah perasaan yang tak perlu kuragukan lagi seberapa besar rasanya.

Makassar, 20.09.17 [ 11:38 ]

'DJ'

[soniaelnicole]

Just a little bit #blogger #nerd #geek #daughterofthemosthigh #daughteroftheking #beautyishername #blondehair #blondie #selfie #selflove #bestlove #daddysgirl #kingdom #queendom

[yumiaintyummyy]

I am so in love.

With myself.. and the man of my dreams. Thank you universe. For the ups and downs.. and everything that has contributed to this moment in time. You are love.

[malechunter]

Love Rosie