Ur big blog post is literally so accurate. There was a span of time where I got asks like every day and I answered them a lot, but then I got hate asks only for a while and just quit and stopped answering anything. Now I don’t get asks basically ever because I’m not answering stuff 24/7 like I was? It’s a cycle. People see you answering stuff and will send asks, prompting more asks, etc etc. Also whatever happened to like “fandom network” blogs? I feel like they haven’t existed since 2014
(context also thank u so much for reading and replying to my completely overdone 2.8k essay on this that's how i spent Most of phannie day ! )
a cycle is such a good word for it!!! it really is just a loop of frequent asks -> hate/negative asks -> no asks until you start answering them more frequently again?? it's really weird and cool and i always wish i had more energy to get caught up on asks but any time i try i get overwhelmed again by new asks bc of like. people seeing me replying fldbld.
and idk! i was barely around in 2014 that was a weird year for me but i bet @danielbear knows more than i do about fandom network blogs. they really did used to be such a thing tho i wish the dnp fandom had more like.. fandom infastructure. more of an internal focus? ppl might stop focusing so much on expecting things from dnp if we did (but i may just be an optimist)















