Ateez Reaction to.... Their S/O Dealing with Stress/Anxiety
Scenario: I’ve been on an Ateez fix thanks to my mother, so I thought I would write a couple scenarios, this one will be triggering to those that deal with stress and anxiety, (as I do) PLEASE Read Cautiously!
Warnings: SOME TRIGGER WARNINGS, some language AGAIN Please READ CAUTIOUSLY!
Okay Hongjoong has been your boyfriend for a while now
He’s a pro when it comes to your anxiety attacks
He knows what they look like
and he knows what can trigger most of them
He will hold you close and gently rock you side to side
Whispering reassuring words into your ear
Quiet enough to where you have to focus to hear what he is saying
He’ll also play you all the songs he knows helps calms you down
(He knows that’s another calming method)
He hates seeing his baby like this
He loves you so much and only wants to see you smile
He’ll always be there for you no matter what
He worries about you when he’s not next to you
He will call you every two hours to check on you
But he always tries to be there for you
He seems to be your safe haven
His presence alone calms your nerves
Seonghwa is a lot like Hongjoong
He hates to see you stressed to the point you’re in tears
or something going on in your life
Seonghwa already hates it when you cry
He just wants to hold you and take all the pain away
But when he sees you stressed out about something
What could be so bad that it’s making his love cry?
However Seonghwa is use to the stress
He knows of all people what stress is
so he will take you outside or sit you on the couch
probably tell you to take a break from whatever it is
He’ll call your manager and request you have a day off to relieve some of the stress, or he’ll suggest you call and request the day off
if it’s something not work related
He’ll pick you up in his strong arms and lay you in his bed and just hold you
Singing softly to you with that silk, gorgeous voice
drawing random shapes into your skin with his finger tip
Anything to calm you down
He hates seeing you stressed out
And he just wants you to calm down before you make yourself sick or get a really bad headache
Yunho goes full protective boyfriend mode when he sees you stressed to the max
Whatever it takes to make you feel better
Even if it’s something small
But he’s gonna make sure you aren’t stressed before you go back to whatever you were doing
He’ll also try to make you laugh
because he thinks that’s the best medicine ever!
He already knows if you snap at him not to take it personal
“Baby... let’s take a break please, you need to de-stress”
Yunho is the type of boyfriend to get a nice hot bath with your favorite bath bomb and candles prepared for you
You love this man so freaking much
“Dammit boy what would I do without you!?”
“I don’t know” *Tiny shrug*
Yeosang hates your anxiety attacks
He hates how they make you feel
He wishes he could take them away from you
“Jagiya... please don’t cry anymore... it hurts too much”
The sight of you makes him weak
He almost breaks down with you
He has to try to calm you down
“Let’s talk about something, anything”
He’ll try to take your mind off of things
He’ll just sit beside you on the floor
Lay your head on his shoulder
And talk about pointless things
just to keep you focused on something other your current situation
He will also be the kind to make you laugh
Try his ponytail dance on you
You eventually crack a little giggle
He’ll then hug you tightly and give you little kisses on your cheek
“I love you Yeosang!” you giggle again
San may look like a cold and intimidating guy sometimes
but that’s not him at all
He’s a very sensitive guy
And his heart is so pure and full of so much love for you and his friends and family
So it kills him to see you stressed out
He just wants to see you happy
sometimes he has to get firm with you to show you how worried he is about you.
“I’m not upset with you baby, but you need to take a breather, you’re getting way too stressed out right now”
Your tears are the worst thing he ever sees on you
He can’t stand to see those tears
“Baby... please... you’re breaking my heart right now”
Finally after seeing San so broken
He takes you to the couch where you two just lay there
He runs his fingers through your hair and speaks so softly to you
Mingi deals with anxiety a lot
So he already knows what to do if you start having an attack.
He will also pull you into his arms and hold you closely
“It’s okay baby...It will pass” he says with his soft deep voice
You’ll grip tightly to his arms and hold onto him as well
Trying to get your breathing back under control
He’ll lay his head against yours and continue to hold you until he can feel your trembles dying down
“I’m right here my love...”
He won’t ask what triggered it
He would be too afraid that it would trigger you again
He’ll just sway you gently
Leaving kisses on your head
whatever to make you feel at ease
Eventually you start breathing normally again
Mingi breathes a sigh of relief
but he won’t let you go yet
“Mingi you can let go now”
You laugh a little and turn around to wrap your arms around his neck
Wooyoung at first didn’t know what to do when you had your first panic attack
But he told you he would help you get through them
He always brings you some cold water and holds your hand
Tracing your knuckles with his thumb
If it’s a really bad one he’ll pull you into his arms
running his hand up and down your arm
Gently singing to you because his voice always relaxes your body
He will also try to take your mind off things
Wooyoung might be all silly and goofy
but he takes things seriously when it comes to your panic attacks
He never tries to overstep his boundaries
He will make sure you’re starting to calm down before maybe cracking a joke or two
You can’t help but laugh a little
“haha! I made my baby smile!”
Then he talks about things that make you both laugh
Maybe tease one of the members!
Then later when you two are cuddled up on the couch or bed
he would ask you if you’re feeling better
“Of course I am... thanks to you”
“I am pretty Daebak right??”
Jongho would be similar to Wooyoung
He wouldn’t know what to do at first with your stress
I mean he gets stressed out himself but it’s different when it’s you
But then after a while he would know what to do
He would close down your laptop
or take away your notebook
and take you out for something to eat
“You need to get rid of the stress Jagiya... it’s not good for the baby”
You can’t help but laugh a little
Then you two would sit in a Ramyun shop and he would ask what was giving you so much stress
You’d explain it was an assignment for college and he would nod
“Then let’s take a minute and just be here”
He would make you eat slowly so you had to focus on taking your time eating instead of trying to be in a rush
He would also tell you to take your time with the assignment
He won’t let you argue with him either
You have to comply because he won’t let you go until you do
Once you’re calm he’ll sit beside you and try to help you with the assignment so you’re not as stressed as you were before.