#bi talk

[pissybitchboy]

the best type of women are the ones that kinda resemble men. and the best type of men are the ones that kinda resemble women. and the best type of enbies are the ones that kinda resemble Horrid Nightmare Demon Ghouls

[gholateg]

Since you've made jokes bout this in the past (I understand their tongue-in-cheek), I'm curious: can you believe there is a stance that all bi men being erased means they're all privileged?

I doubt any real progress will be made unless that is dropped.

Oh 100%.

And it goes both ways, that's the fun thing.

We either "Figured things out finally" and found a "Straight" relationship. Thus "removing ourselves from the community and it's struggle"

OR we "Finally came out of the closet" if we find a "Gay" relationship. Thus joining the perceived most powerful part of the alphabet mafia.

And I'd be a hypocrite to not point out that this is the same boat the bi girls are in too.

Basically, the only way things get better is that eventually "the community" implodes in on itself and we disperse like mushroom spores.

[thebatmmmomma]

Dusty: i'm a Racer and a firefighter

Blaze: oh how cool!

Blaze: i'm also a Racer but i'm also a cop, firefighter, Ninja, Truck Ranger and the King of animal Island

Dusty: damn

Blaze: what about you Monty?

McQueen: i'm retired lol

Blaze:

Dusty:

Dusty: what

[sugar-petals]

Who do you think is the most beautiful kpop female idol ?

i love my gal chungha 😊

[gholateg]

The thing is, the "all bi men face zero bigotry and are privileged based on erasure" is commonly paired with the idea that only bi women face any real biphobia.

Not everyone does this, but is it any real surprise 'women are the only ones who can be victims" is here to?

I mean, that's just good ol' misandry, the staple crop of most social media. Men being victims is treated as a joke, regardless of who is abusing us, and trying to get that view to change is akin to pushing rope uphill.

It's gross that a lot of the recent upswing in treating men better is tied to trans issues, because it both invalidates those who transition into men, and doubles down on how little the world actually cares about us.

And yes it sucks, and one of our biggest issues as a bisexual community is that it's media/online presence is heavily focused on the women end.

It's downright infuriating to see the near constant "Bi women are X" posts, when both sides deal with a lot of the same issues. or that the bulk of bi-positive posts will inevitably slap -women on the end to shut us out of the party.

But I can't in good conscious leave them out of the points I make because then I'm no better then the people who I'm angry at.

We all lift together.

[sugar-petals]

Considering the Yoongi and Levi content here, are you attracted to short men?

i prompt this question so often, the very fact shall speak for itself. let me express it clearly still. height is just the beginning. it’s a whole type that’s sent right up my ally every time and i’ve already made a habit of providing a shelf for the man’s sword collection (right next to my knife collection, so romantic). pocketsized, beverage-loving cat man draped in all black (that’s the outside). misanthropic bisexual with daddy issues and a protected heart (so much for the inside).

so if he:

then me:

[sugar-petals]

"guys in theory girls in practice" SAME (except for 2 specific ones)

‘specific ones’ — new bi culture code word, will add to my everyday vocabulary. and let me guess: these guys were borderline goth were they

[diary-of-alice]

honestly hearing stories from people with your same sexual identity is sooo validating.

I literally was listening to a podcast about bisexuality and in near tears when this woman was explaining she finds both labels “straight and lesbian” equally restrictive. !!!! and this is the EXACT feeling I get!!!

It’s hard being raised to perceive bisexuality as a false identity or “light” gay. It’s also harder when society continues to perpetuates stereotypes and many still treat it as a stepping stone only (totally understandable if ppl need to use it any given moment in time! it was pretty cool in the podcast bc the host, who identifies as gay, explained how the term made him more comfortable on his journey to embracing his sexuality).

all this to say, I’m glad I’m living in a bisexual renaissance and I’m glad this term is getting the respect and visibility it deserves💗💜💙