#big 3 safe

[verymanyrats]

from top to bottom, left to right, the flags are: blank, paraphilia (general), MAP, necro, zoo, omniphile, and erotophonophile

[derotettix]

the circus trio again!!! but apter, shaper, brighter, newer

[jackalzoogirl]

I really really need to see positive-vibe pro-para art (not porn). I feel like any art I see outside of porn is just vent art. (Especially if it's 🗺 related).

If you're seeing this please show me para art that's SFW and positive vibes. All paras are fine but especially big 3 cause those are the ones who usually have the most stigma, shame, etc.

(Please RB so this finds someone with para positive art to show me?)

[7-headmate]

Today is a lovely day to appreciate AAMs.

[tobiasrodgers]

consensual necro-contact or "necrosensual-contact"

symbols : 🩻 or 😵🩶

necrosensual-contact the belief that necrophilia can be consented to beforehand, similar to how an organ donor can consent to their body being used to help others, or somnophilia or cnc can be negotiated beforehand.

importantly, this stance includes the core belief that necros cannot be considered "inherently nonconsensual" and that the "big 3" paraphilias should not be treated differently or more feared than other paras.

This stance is meant to be used in addition to ones general contact stance, but can be used standalone as well.

one can refer to someone who consents to their body being used this way as a "necro-donor." the symbol for this is 🪪⚰️.

@maki--archival @snvffix @paraphilia-flags-and-more

[tohellandbackplease]

Maybe in a perfect universe, paramisia is taken as serious as other forms of discrimination are and paraphiles don’t have to deal with the constant backlash and predator allegations

The fact that paraphiles have to hide their attractions from those they love because they know their loved ones will abandon and shame them is disappointing, and we need to stop normalizing that shit. I’m tired of people claiming to be woke and progressive while not taking any chances to listen to the para community just because we happen to have paraphilias the public finds “icky.” Perhaps they would stop acting like this the day they learn that not everyone acts on their attraction (in the case of “harmful” ones) and that we should still be treated as equal despite what we’re into, but until then we’ll have to deal with the constant demonization of paraphilias

Also want to add, can people PLEASE stop assuming that all paraphiles have a paraphiliac disorder. A paraphilia can only be classified as a disorder if the paraphilia causes distress in the paraphile (or if the paraphile has actually acted on it in the case of some paraphilias) but many paraphiles do not feel distress due to their paraphilias. I’ve found that my distress often comes from paramisia instead of my paraphilias!

[jackalzoogirl]

I want a para/radqueer partner that would be so sick. Imagine dating someone who is totally chill and completely safe to be your full authentic self with.

[7-headmate]

✦ A-spec MAP flag is the prettiest flag ever. I love My country.