#bisayablog

[gugma-hasol-makabuang]

Mahadlok nako mag take ug risk kay permi nalang ta ma dissapoint ani!

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Maturity

Di sya moabot sa usa ka taw as a whole. Like, oh yes she’s not judgmental anymore so she’s mature because psychology says, “maturity is when you stop judging others”, but no. Yes she stopped talking about other ppl behind their back but still she does not know how to consider the two sides of every story. So what’s that?

When you say maturity, it’s hard to explain because we might say mature nata because nakaya nato ang certain circumstance nga niabot sa atong life pero sa ubang butang we can’t. We have different flaws. We have strengths and also weaknesses.

Everything we have experienced taught us how to be strong. Either mentally, emotionally or physically . Some would say or might think they are mature enough because of what they have experienced pero that’s not enough. Maturity is not about being able to cope with a certain situation nga lisod or challenges because you have encountered them before. I think that’s flexiblity or nakatuon nagyud ka.

It’s hard to say mature na ka kung ang basehan nimo kay imong past. How about those wa gyud kasuway ug kalisod ug grabe nga problem? Di sila momature? Hahaha. For me it is on a certain thing lang gyud. Depende sa taw, sa situation you’re in, sa panahon, ug sa butang. After everything that has happened, di pagyud pod ko mature. 😂

[gugma-hasol-makabuang]

Wag na wag mong susubukan ang isang loyal na tao para magloko.