#empowering

[histhoughtslately]

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[xanaxfarts]

how it feels to not give a fuck

[adviceformefromme]

Stop walking around like a lost puppy and get into your purpose…

But I don’t know what my purpose is???? 

And that’s cool, but what are you doing to find out? Are you so busy trying to conceal the emptiness that’s inside that you don’t actually know how to fill the gaping hole? Distracting yourself with social media, socialising with friends, boozing, the news….. There will be endless distractions for you, especially if you have no desire to live in your purpose…. But if you do..Here are some tips..

30 mins self care each morning. Open your journal. Pray. Ask yourself questions. Listen for the answers. Practise 10 mins meditation. Read something inspiring (I read Fire Starter Sessions by Danielle Laporte - which helped me immensely when I needed to find my heart-filled purpose). Keep your phone SWITCHED OFF. 

Learn to say NO. If it’s not supporting your growth, if it’s not empowering you. If it’s not watering your soul. It’s a No. This might look like saying no to the after work drinks because you’re going to a talk on self development, it might look like not answering your phone because you’re about to do the guided meditation on YouTube. It might look like cancelling the date because you know deep down this guy is not the one. 

GET INSPIRED. Read books, go on YouTube and find content creators who inspire you, listen to podcasts, there are people out there who will resonate with your soul. You’ll feel like the message is personally for you… go out and seek. The wisdom to inspire you to walk in your purpose is waiting for you! 

[quotelr]

you have outgrown this skin.stop trying to hold it in.stop trying to hold it together.let yourself break.

AVA., you are safe here.

[thepersonalquotes]

i am a woman and i am alone,and i cannot tell which one of the twoi love being more.

Ava, You Are Safe Here.

[thepersonalwords]

Black Girls… Don’t be afraid to use your voice. Your thoughts, opinions, and ideas are just as important as anybody else’s. When you speak, speak with boldness and purpose. Have courage, be confident, and always be true to yourself! Live your life fearlessly! Your voice has GREAT power; don’t be afraid to utilize it when needed. You’re NOT an angry Black woman; you’re a woman who has something important to say. Your voice matters and so do YOU.

Stephanie Lahart

[starfizzydolly]

{can't sleep so...}

🪻micro self-improvement objectives I want to achieve before this rummer:🪻

-stop comparing myself to my friends:

girl, let's be fr, your friends care for you and love you, if you really needed to compare yourself at least compare yourself to some stranger.

-eat more healthy:

Goodbye added sugars and carbs in the evening! Hello Turkish apple tea in the morning!

-drink more:

I NEED TO CHUG AT LEAST 1 LITER OF WATER NO MORE EXCUSES.

-walk at least 10k steps:

Sorry to admit it but, I'm a slug. GET MORE STEPS!!!! GO OUT OR ON THE TREADMILL DAMMIT!

-stop avoiding dance classes:

Get your depressed lazy ass up and MOVE!!!! no excuses, I don't wanna hear "oh but I'm so fat compared to them" GIRL!!!! WAKE UP THAT'S WHAT'S GONNA MAKE YOU LOOSE WEIGHT!!!

-work out:

Okay I actually do this one BUT I keep messing up so this is more like a reminder to work everyday! Dammit! Or prepare a sustainable workout routine or smt

-use your phone less:

Let's be fr, sometimes it really IS your phone. Take a break. Please. There's too much negativity in this rectangular little working device for your 15 year old brain.

-ACTUALLY study:

get back on track! Dammit you're not gonna build a good career through bad grades- perhaps not even good ones BUT with good grades you will be able to achieve all your classes AND to even study in university!

-fuck anyone who tries to push you down again:

Hey, fuck off. Seriously, never talk to me again if you don't want to see me live my best life. I don't care what YOU or any other person has to say honestly.

🌠That's all- wish me luck!🌌