#bisexual probs

[strangebeautiful]

why am i better at writing smut from a male perspective when i am a female that has had sex with a man

is it just the 75% gay in me that’s like “women are perfect and beautiful and let me write about them being admired” because i need the 25% to really come through and do me a solid here

[ellyisaslygirl]

HELP!

So I’ve been friends with this girl and she’s about 2 years younger than me so it’s bad enough but we’ve been friends since I was 14 and her 12 about to be 13, but lately I’ve been having feelings for her and another thing that sucks is that she lives in Canada and me in the States, so it’s killing me and plus idk how to tell her how I feel cuz i dont want things to be awkward...and i give her compliments sometimes but ugh...and i try not to push it because yeah, but damn..what I would do for her to be mine...

[anotherlonelystargazer]

there are so many pretty girls

and i just want to kiss one but i also want to kiss a boy and oof my heart is so conflicted. i can’t believe i didn’t realize i was bisexual sooner??? yet here i am, still single, not out yet, and very inexperienced when it comes to dating and intimacy ugh

[littlebuckbuck]

Every time i see daniel and sams face in the same shot im just like Make me into a fucking sandwhiiiiiiiiichhhhhh

[the-incrediblydeadly-viper]

gay insomnia

me: "shit, it's 3:00 am better get to sleep" gay thoughts: "..." gay thoughts: "u still awake?" me: "fUCK"

[oh-ganesson]

the great thing about being bisexual and a doctor who fan is that youre not bothered if the doctor is a man or a woman, youre still gonna develop some sort of crush on them and thats honestly just fine

[ghoulia-child]

I just saw wedding photos from two ladies in my local derby league and they are so beautiful. Lesbian loves are the purest kind of loves and it makes my heart so happy to see them together. Bless.

[queerzaza]

Hi, i'm coming to terms with the fact that i'm probably bisexual but i still have some problems with it...i feel like i would really love to have a girlfriend (i'm female) but i'm not sure if i would be able to be in an open relationship with a girl because i'm to "shy" to come out to my parents :/ (1/2)

my dad is kinda homophobic (i mean he tries to play it cool but you can definitely see it) and i'm scared that it i tell them i'm bi they just expect me to get a girlfriend and will act weird if i end up with a boy... plus, i can't communicate well and i never really talk about serious stuff with my parents (which is definitely wrong but we don't get along well and it's really hard to open up to them).

you didn’t ask me a question, so i’m unsure if you’re just venting to a fellow bisexual person, or what. either way, i hope you kno tht your sexuality is your business and no one but potential partners have a right to kno. tho ppl think if you’re Bi/Pan and are in a relationship with someone of a specific gender, , tht you’ve somehow “chosen a side”- tht’s not true. tht’s not how attraction works.

for example, a straight guy who marries a girl, would still be attracted to other girls, he’s just chosen this particular one to commit to. a Bi/Pan person is still Bi/Pan, even if they only ever date ppl of a certain gender. it’s all about who you’re attracted to, not who you date. it’s not performative, it’s in your heart and mind where your orientation’s decided.

remember tho, if there’s a chance your folks can harm you (including financially) then wait until tht’s no longer an issue before you come out. as, it doesn’t matter what they think about your relationships, tht’s between you and your partners. i hope you’ll reach out to other LGBT folks in your area and meet like-minded folks, best of luck to you turtledove!