black men really out here consciously & aggressively diminishing the black population & it be so hard for me to not look at it like, if this were a ‘trend’ black women had picked up instead — & we lived & breathed for shitting on niggas in the meanwhile like they do us — while upholding, fucking & breeding w culture vulture white men or nbmoc, we would be ostracized like a mf. not even by just our community. the world at large would jump at opportunities to ridicule us. right there w black men ofc; that's a given.
even wealthy black women would get the short end of the stick if we epitomized & glorified relationships we vindictively pursued w white or only half black or fair skinned foreign men out of “harmless preferences”. The same “harmless preferences “ we use to backhand black men w perpetuation around them not being good enough, racially ambiguous enough, masculine enough or desirable at large, we would effortlessly be written off & cancelled as racist, colorist, antiblack & self-hating. fucking period.
if we was out here fucking w any demographic of men renown for gaslighting black women as nothing but “black pussy” & only fucking us for the same fetishised reasons, can you imagine? imagine if we was out here vouching for white & nbmoc who we was fully aware regarded us like that? imagine if we was out here letting white & nbmoc have at our wombs on some colorist “hE fInE tHo & iOn wAnT dArK sKinNeD kIdS oR Fw bLaCk mAlEs” type shit. Lmfffffao.
Imagine if we was out here basically reproducing w nb men who only sexualize & objectify antiblack bw to have a stake in producing mixed raced children they forge their way into our culture thru. imagine if you saw antiblack bw on social media at the rate you do bm these days nurturingly posted up w biracial children they have w nb partners as opposed to being as notably engaged w monoracial black children they have from previous relationships w bm.
we'd be a laughing stock just bc we're black women. ppl would clown us & make us out to be women who just wanna be white/socially accepted so badly we're selling our culture & reproducing w anyone but black men to outbreed ourselves; like we're so desperate to be on the totem pole we're not only willfully allowing but participating prevalently in the erasure of Black Culture.
weird af how this is not at all the case for black men. it's like it's becoming more & more common to come across swirler couples, mixed kids & black men who just truly unreasonably slander tf out of black women w no real opposition from anyone fr. no one opens their mouths ab it but other black women. the same black women who are constantly thrown under the bus even when we're out protesting the murders of black men (by non blacks as well as fellow black men).
it's weird how mfs don't & seemingly can't realize how significant a nose dive black culture has taken in tandem w both the destructive whims & misogynistic tendencies of black men. I don't know who or what gave them the green light, but they seem determined that antiblackness thru fetishism is the future — & hasn't instead been all of human history that has abused black culture, black people, & esp black women itfp.
they seem hellbent on appropriating bw as their particular oppressors; the real oppressors all the while & in “sheep's clothing” who've kept them from attainable success, aspects of freedom, real livelihood and qualities of life. It’s the white man principally, but the white woman has unique immunity or can be forgiven as they make self serving excuses for — but somehow it’s become the black woman just as principally as white men. It’s been black women, always notably in some traitorous, neglectful, spiteful, if not an all around flawed and mean-spirited way, being set out to stifle Black men through projections about our mistreatment. Even and especially regarding how they mistreated and defeminize us. It’s us all by ourselves and against them personally and with a bitter passion in every existential breath we take.
we're who's had our foot on their (and “black culture's”) neck for centuries. we're what's stunted & shiftless ab what white people — meaning both white men and white women — have desecrated and portrayed for centuries ab black communities and our diaspora and our households and black voters and black poverty and black parenthood and black femininity and black masculinity and black health and black genes and black traits and black hair and black music and black love and black sex and black children and black education and black business and black ownership and black healthcare disparities and black income disparities and black housing and black neighborhoods and black on black crime and black employment and black marriage rates. right. even our own sexual assault/abuse experiences (disproportionately given a fuck ab next to literally any other race of women in the world) is our fault. With black men as are our #1 assailants in the face of it tho.
& we are your #1 victims for reasons that mirror just as much of their brainwashed hatred for us. for what irony's worth, those aren't statistics that have been falsely hyped like those historically by your jungle-feverish snow bunnies, either. those are facts bc alotta y'all really just do not know how to care or care at all ab treating black women like human beings. the way you can easily do it for nb women w/o thought? that. that is the kind of humanity too many as all as an increasing number of y'all do not have for us. down to even the way y’all perceive little Black Girls. It’s that ugly. This blows my mind. Like the way it makes me so ashamed of modern black men on such an insurmountable degree…..
It be so wild. None of this makes sense today anymore than it will make sense in the future, and I am so fucking gobsmacked at how normalized it is.
