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[glorianasims2]

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Took me a whole day to do this hair o_o

[allychxnel]

Camp Gibbi Point

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[ninasimsimma]

the ryan's // current household

afterschool pickups be ROUGH with a threenager!

[coceauxsims]

#3.21 : Letting Go, Moving Forward

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(TW : mention of Miscarriage)

The remainder of the afternoon seemed to drag, and by the time night came around it felt like time stopped altogether. Támar thought she was up alone until she left the guestroom she occupied to find almost all of the lights on.

Selena was up; cleaning things that didn't have a single spot of dirt on them.

She found Selena in the kitchen washing her hands for what was probably the hundredth time. Unfortunately, for both of them, sleep was evading. Unlike Selena who was wrecked with worry, Támar was angry.

So much time, too much in fact, over the last three years had been spent on an individual who often refused to take two seconds to consider anyone other than themselves.

Did Támar truly want to give up on her sister? No. She couldn't imagine the thought of someone throwing in the towel on her (whether the pain was visible or not), but what more could she do?

Kerri could keep the property in Oasis Springs. She could even keep the funds Támar set aside, she had no use for it. But Támar had no more energy for Kerri if Kerri couldn't find the energy to help herself. Támar had her own life to pull back together.

She wished Selena would fall back, even just a little, but Támar knew her mother wasn't built that way. It was what made her so wonderful.

But Támar felt this was only going to bring her mother more stress and heartache and she didn't want to be a witness to that either.

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So, remember I told y'all the game got messy? That heaux got dirty too.

Dom and Tam indeed had a true surprise pregnancy. The condom broke (first time I've ever had that happen in game), and she was on BC but I was going to let it go because apparently the game wanted them to have a baby before marriage. They'd have just missed being teen parents since Dom would have just turned 20 and Tam is a few months older than him, so cool. that also would have fallen in line with the plot of my unfinished second novel about them, so hey... sticking with book accuracy, I guess lol.

Well... the game and the childbirth mod decided they wanted to tag team and stress me tf out.

Technically, Tam had a stillbirth, but I didn't want to write that in and the game glitched and deleted the baby's urn (okay, whatever). THEN, an update I forgot was added to the childbirth mod... Tam had postpartum complications and almost died (I took that module/addon out my game so fast). I exited the game without saving and decided that I would not be writing that into the storyline either.

So, in story she had a missed miscarriage and made it through the subsequent procedure just fine (physically), Dom was by her side every step of the way and they agreed to keep it to themselves since they never announced the pregnancy.

I can tell y'all now, this is not the reason they broke up because I still had them together afterward. They were still supposed to be together but neighborhood stories wanted to dogpile after the game & that mod messed me over. 😩

[ninasimsimma]

another one (cas session)

[allychxnel]

Aurora made breakfast for Lola before she leaves for summer camp!

[literallylana001]

NSB Gen Plum ❤️

Hyacinth is in her third trimester now! There's also never a dull moment in my game. 🙃

Besides that, little baby Clementine was born the following day 🧡

Here she is as an infant, just as cute as she could be! I'm excited to see how she grows, she already has a strong relationship with her father more than her mother. I loveeee how mods can shape feelings and relationships!

Next on my goal is to focus on the divorce goal of the challenge and moving to a different world. Hyacinth is also doing good in her degree so hopefully she can complete it before she ages up to an adult!