I was single for 7 years. I felt like being a bear trans guy under 5ft tall who's masculine as hell, made me impossible to desire and love. I tried dating apps, forums, asking friends, etc. Nothing ever worked, and nothing ever stuck.
Last night, my boyfriend of 1.5 years was telling me that when we get together next month, he's going to admire my trans surgery scars. We've been looking at places to move to together, and I swear I've never imagined that a man could love and appreciate me as much as he does. I'm lucky every day to have him, especially since he's the guy who I'd been crushing on for years before he asked me if we wanted to be long distance in 2024. Turns out he'd been crushing on me for years before that moment, too, but was afraid to ask for a relationship.
adorable, happy you found the type of relationship you wanted!
