#boyfriend issue

[tiny--bubbles]

[faerl]

Feeling really heartbroken. I miss him so much it hurts like hell. I can't stop crying. I just wish he'd come back and we could go back to before.

[grizzlyhairs]

Venting time.

Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now. I'm his first girlfriend, and everything else. And he doesn't talk about girls that he's talked about in the past much to me. Which I understand. But I occasionally find him texting a girl who I am guessing it is a former girl who he has "talked" to. She lives in Florida, but hours away. But it still bothers me seeing them text or communicate. It's been going on for I think 3 months into our relationship and I still haven't said anything to h about it. I'm not going to be the bitchy girlfriend and say "you can't talk to her!" Because that's unfair to their friendship. But then again I don't even know about their friendship, or who she is! He knows all of my guy friends, and if he ask how I know him, I'll tell him the truth. But I have no earthly clue who she is and if I should feel threatened by her. I am quite jealous of the fact of how pretty she is, but then again, it's a girl who my boyfriend used to talk to so of course is bothers me. I feel like not talking to him about it will make everything okay in our relationship. But it truly does bother me. I've been told to just let it go because I am the one he chose and the one he wants to be with. But what if she pops up out of no where? Should I be prepared? Should I converse with him to really know who she is and where she stands with him. I don't want to be the bitchy girlfriend, but I do not want to be caught off guard. This really fucking sucks.

[dearellody]

When my boyfriend says something he likes about another girl or something on another girl, it kinda gets to me. Its like this: Ive known that he likes red hair. I always wanted to try out red hair. So I did. He never gave me a compliment or anything. Is it normal for me to feel upset or am I just being weird?