#cafestudying

[soft-study-vibes]

You don’t have to be productive every single day of your life. Your body needs rest, your mind needs rest. Your worth isn’t defined by how productive you are. Be mindful of that and take a break.

[nerdnursestudy]

Café studying on a Sunday afternoon is the best kind of studying. Sipping on a caramel latte and enjoying the first snowfall of the year. Super cozy! ❄❄❄

[soft-study-vibes]

You did what you could today, be proud of that

[soft-study-vibes]

I think there’s something so wonderful about recommend a show/book/game to someone and gradually watching them fall in love with it the way that you did. I just LOVE hearing people’s theories about the plot, finding out which characters they adore and despise. When you get little updates from them when a big event happens in the storyline?? Good shit

[soft-study-vibes]

Sometimes you just have to accept that a person’s perspective on you isn’t what you hoped it to be. There’s gonna be people out there who dislike you because you took too long in the queue to pack your change away. There’s gonna be people who dislike you because they only caught the tail end of a conversation you had with a friend. People may dislike you because you laughed too loudly in public once.

But you gotta remember that with the bad also comes the good!! People out there may remember you as someone who held a door open for them. They may remember you as someone who got excited when you saw their puppy. Even something as small as cleaning up after yourself in a cafe, which saved them a little extra work.

I know it’s hard not to focus on the negative aspects and worry about the way people see us, but I promise you that you’ll feel better when you realise that not everyone will accept you at your face value, and that it’s okay!! You know who you are, and what you represent. The people that truly matter will see that.

[soft-study-vibes]

One of these days I’ll wake up in my own apartment, with the sun streaming through the curtains and the love of my life by my side. We’ll have breakfast on the balcony, with the crisp spring air greeting our skin, and chatter idly about last nights dreams and the plans for the day ahead. The whole apartment will be surrounded by plants, I’ll even have a little herb garden on my windowsill. We’ll be financially stable and be happy in our respective jobs. We’ll have a life away from each other so we don’t lose our independence, filled with our own friends and family and people who radiate good vibes, but we’ll still have our nights bundled together, watching movies and going on date nights. With a cat curled up beside us, life will be good and I’ll be happy.

[soft-study-vibes]

Relationships shouldn’t be exhausting, romantic or platonic! Relationships should be forged for your own enjoyment, if you feel constantly tired when you’re around someone, then PLEASE reconsider that relationship. Particularly if you don’t feel like you can be yourself around them. Friends and loved ones are there to create great memories with, and to share laughs and to make you feel good about yourself. They’re created for you! They’re not one sided and should be something you look forward to. Please remember that.

[soft-study-vibes]

Hello!

This is a reminder to relax your shoulders and unclench your jaw. You’re welcome!