#caring anon

[shiny-jr]

you better be taking of yourself pal.. or else..

—the caring threat anon

I think I am "taking of" myself, thank you, anon.

[my-castles-crumbling]

Cas babe, I'm royally fucked. The drama that is surrounding me rn is so fucking unreal.

So let me start from the very beginning, so I m a 16 yr old girl and i hv this really close guy friend let's call him J, so J and I have been friends since forever, like I don't even remember when I first met him. I have known him since I was born , like I have never known a life without J. And i love him like a brother.

Ok so fast forward a few years and now we're both 16, and we met this girl, Lottie she was a transfer student and we ( J , Lottie and I) had a few classes together. And slowly we develop a friendship.

Now the thing is that J has a crush on Lottie and he told me as soon as he realised it and me being the great friend that I am have subtly been wingwomaning him .

So, last week after English class (only Lottie and I have this class) , Lottie asked me out. Yeah, and I'm straight af but I'm an ally. So I was like what? But she was like i thought u were queer coz u give very strong queer vibes which is kinda true because I have a MAJOR crush on lily Rose depp and i hv always said that she could run me over with her car and I'd thank her and beg her to fuck me, (yeah I have issues.) And I also have bi friend who i jokingly call my wife bcoz when she came out ppl were being very homophobic and i thought that was the only way to support her. (i was 14 ok i don't judge me)

So back to Lottie I wa obviously s so very awkward I was like ohhh. And i told her in the politest way i could manage that I m straight af (bcoz i am) and I'm kinda flustered that she has a crush on me bcoz she is really pretty. And she got very embarassed and started apologising and I was like no no it's fine , it's totally fine. Yeah but she also kinda requested me not to tell anyone else that she's a lesbian bcoz she's not out to everyone, and I was like Of course .And now she has been trying to avoid me for the few days which anyone in her position would do tbh, so I don't blame her for that.

Ok so now bcoz Lottie is avoiding me she's also avoiding J by extension coz we both r usually hanging out together. So i already told u that J has a crush on Lottie so he was obviously not happy that she was avoiding us and i couldn't tell him why bcoz OBVIOUSLY.

And a little note abt my best friend he is extremely fucking extra , he is the biggest drama queen in the world like Sirius Black level of drama. So now his dumbass decided that he will ask Lottie out, and bcoz he is so fucking extra abt everything he is thinking of using the help of his teammates ( he's on the football team) to ask her out after the football match next Friday.

And in trying to convince him that he should not do it, but when he asks why i don't have any solid reason because it's not my place to tell him abt Lottie. So he's really planning everything to make the proposal perfect, and I'm stressing tf out.

I love J and i don't want to see him get hurt bcoz obviously Lottie is gonna say no, and on top of that it would be kinda humiliating bcoz the entire school and another school would be there. And I'm also worried that Lottie will think that I did this in purpose to embarrass her so now I'm stuck in a huge fucking dilemma.

And ngl I find this situation extremely fucking hilarious BCOZ WHAT IN THE WATTPAD LEVEL OF SHIT IS THIS? IS THIS SITUATION EVEN REAL? LIKE DOES THIS KINDA SHIT EVEN HAPPEN IRL???

pls help me bcoz I don't know what tf I'm going to do and i hv to do something before Friday or 😭😭😭.

omg I have to say- the way I was literally gasping throughout this story because...wow

So first, I want to say I think you were really sweet with Lottie. It sounds like you're a super kind person, and a wonderful ally <3

Honestly, I would probably talk to Lottie (if possible) and tell her that J is about to ask her out in front of the entire school, and ask her if it's okay for you to tell him that she's simply not interested. The reason I think this is the best option is because, either way Lottie will find out about J's feelings, so you can't really prevent that. This way, you're preventing embarrassment for both Lottie and J. Also, you're possibly protecting Lottie from attention by telling J you just "heard Lottie is not interested" because that doesn't out Lottie. AND even if J doesn't listen to you, you've helped by both preparing Lottie for what will happen and by sort of...introducing J to the idea that she's not interested.

So yeah. I think this is your best bet.

Keep me updated, I'm dying to know what happens!

(Also I am naming all the anons who write to me in case they want to write in the future, and I am using a random positive affirmation generator to do so. So I dub thee: caring anon. Enjoy your free tag!)

[1uvrrr]

Behen so jaa ..dark circles aa jayenge .. take a rest

Woah you care? thanks I'll sleep dw

[twink-between-worlds]

This is probably a stupid question, and I apologize if it does indeed seem to be one, but how does one correctly use your pronouns? I feel really bad about it, but I've been using they/them/theirs pronouns to refer to you when speaking about you, as I'm not entirely sure how the neopronouns you use work in sentences, and I know that a lot of people don't like having they/them/theirs used when it's not the specified pronouns for them. I'm sorry if this comes off as rude or ignorant, I just haven't really interacted with people with neopronouns before, and a lot of the online guides aren't really making sense. Is there any specific way the pronouns are used...?

- J

oh! not a stupid question at all! i've actually explained this before, but i cannot find the post, so here you go!

so, for example sake; They/Them/Theirs

Fae replaces 'they'; "They spoke gently" becomes "Fae spoke gently", Faer replaces Them; "I don't want to bother them" becomes "I dont want to bother faer", and the last one is Faers replaces Theirs; "That book is theirs" can become "That book is faers"

for my other set (that not a lotta people use, which is valid) is Bee/Bees! Bee replaces They, like "they did (action)" becomes "Bee did (action)", and Bees replaces both them and theirs :]

[ask-hex-and-whitty]

👀 “..... VIRUS SIMPS FOR WHITTY AND ITS VERY POG!” -Caring Anon

Virus, quite literally, choked on air, even if he didn't even need to breathe it, his pupil shrinking. Fuck.

"Ah... S-Shut up."

He averted his gaze from them, looking around to make sure none of the other two had heard.

[anotherteenageroninternet]

you are always online..........?????take care of your self .....social media is harmful to mental health.....stay safe.......

am i ?

i didnt noticed

honestly , like i would be studying then just casually open a new tab and would think lemme scroll once through tumblr and then i would forget i needed to study

i actually dont notice the amount of time i spend waste in here

thank you so much

i will log off now

really thank you anon for caring for me

love you<33

[grocerystore-gf]

Hello I saw your rotting post. I hope that you rott less! Wish you a very happy and non-rottful new year! - Caring Anon

a w.

this is literally so sweet,,,,thank you nonnie....me will try<3

AND SAME TO YOU LOVE!

this made me smile 🥺

[notafrogblog]

I just want to say I hope things get better <3. I wish you luck and I hope you'll be accepted. Come out in your own time and pace ~ Caring Anon

Thanks caring anon, this means a lot