"By far the most complicated system of honorifics comes from the borderlands region of the Codish [sic] Empire. Utilizing prefixes and suffixes (and infixes in certain dialects), Çotilkan (commonly referred to as Southwestern Codish Dialect) distinguishes on a spectrum between younger and older, respect and disrespect, ally and foe, family and non-family, and more, depending on a complex system of social rules.
Studies have found that çotilkan-speaking youth tend to flatten some of these honorifics, depending on who they are speaking to. A study by Dr. Gorgonix that conducted interviews with teens and young adults from the region indicated that while teens are aware of most if not all of these honorifics, regardless of whether they could elaborate on their use cases, recorded conversations with peers showed that most of these honorifics were not being used as described.
For example, a native çotilkan-speaker might describe -lor as an honorific reserved for respected enemies. However, a sixteen year old bilingual participant used it to describe a friend who is a Mythland citizen. When questioned in the post-interview, the participant cited that their mother, also a native çotilkan-speaker, used the honorific to refer to Mythic nationals, and that it was common for people in their town to do the same. When asked if this implied some level of respect or familiarity, the interviewee responded that it was for “people whose family we know.” Additionally, the interviewee elaborated that enemy was “too strong” a term to use to describe usage. When asked what term the participant would use, they responded saying they didn’t know, and then suggested the national-codish word teral, commonly translated as opposite.
Furthermore, in a survey, 47% of çotilkan-speaking youth reported that they don’t use non-family oriented honorifics to distinguish between family members and people they know. Some comments reported that youth reserve non-family honorifics for speaking to elders. In that same survey, a whopping 52% of participants reported avoiding honorifics that imply disrespect. Notably, most of these participants reported being bi- or multilingual. It is worth mentioning that national-codish does not have honorifics that denote disrespect, whereas national-mythic does not use honorifics at all. (These two languages had the highest rates of bilingualism with Çotilkan.)
Surveys conducted specifically in Mythland had even more stark results. 67% of native çotilkan-speaking youth only use a handful of honorifics; 42% of those only use honorifics for elders, family members, and government officials; 20% of those only use honorifics in front of elders and government officials. Even more shocking, 15% of respondents report never using honorifics."
excerpt from "Tug-of-War: a linguist's approach to examining the erasure of individual cultures in the borderlands of the Cod and Mythic Empires" by Honesty Growing