#cat called

[lavender-lapcat]

So you're friends with the annoying crazy mutt huh?

Unfortunately.

[euesworld]

"Love is so elusive, a chameleon hanging from heart strings.. like a marionette champion wrestling dreams. Love is like a kitten, innocence and playful.. we are all just a ball of string being cat called as the angels sing. Love is like waves of flames, emanating untamed rain.. and if you aren't careful, the allure of love could drive you insane. Butterflies in my veins, up up and away.. bleeding pain, and then you realize that you will never be the same."

Love is mystery, one that everyone wants to unravel - eUë

[dearlybeeloved]

Walking from my apartment to my Disney bus stop I was catcalled by at least eight of our transportation team so much so that I felt uncomfortable and had to put on a jacket over my shirt (that showed my bralette underneath) and go sit in a corner.

Why are men so creepy and awful? Girls you don’t know don’t want compliments from you. We know we look good. It’s not for you, it’s for US. So don’t ogle us and be on your fucking way.

[lavender-lapcat]

HEYY!!!!!

I'm going back to sleep.

[man-bear-thing]

Had a very weird catcalling interaction yesterday

I was walking to the train after work and noticed a guy following me. I put my earbuds in but didn’t play anything to make sure I could hear what was happening around me, but look like I wasn’t interested in my surroundings. He starts shouting at me: “damn girl I ain’t gonna lie, you got the fattest ass I’ve ever seen on a white girl and I’m into it” and shit like that.

He followed me for about two blocks catcalling at me before he sprinted up to cut me off. I’m honestly freaked at this point because he’s actually running up to me in broad daylight and that’s scary???

Anyways, he starts going off about how into me he is and how hot I am and then he looks me up and down and goes “damn. You ain’t into men. Have a good day, sir” and walks off

My guy legit clocked me as a straight trans man just by looking at me im cooked

[nekotruffle]

You know I love that when I explain to my mom that I hate when people harass me on the streets she instantly brings it back to how I was dressed as if that matters

[moronic-validity]

An Open Letter to Cat Callers

Dear Cat Callers,

You disgust me.

It truly is that simple, but for the sake of my integrity, I will keep things civil.

I do not know what thoughts go through your brain that would make you believe that leaning out of your car window to let me know that I ‘look like a snack’ is a good idea. Let me make this clear to you, not only was that not okay, but the only thing that went through my head was that I wish you would starve.

In America, roughly 82 percent of women have experienced sexual harassment on the street, it is a growing epidemic that you keep contributing to.

Let me be completely blunt with you: I do not owe you a smile, response, an inch of my space or a second of my time. I owe you nothing. I did not even owe it to you to write this letter.

Do all people a favor and take a page from amusement park safety and keep your hands, feet, and head in your vehicle at all times.

See you never,

Diana Marie

[keyki421]

Blessing in Disguise

There are many positives of not being what society deems attractive. I see tweets from woman all the time about how they are so fearful of using Uber/Lyft or even walking home during the day or night. They are afraid to walk in certain areas because they are afraid to be cat called or afraid of being harassed. In all of my 26 years of life, I have never been catcalled. I have never been sexual harassed. I never been fearful of my life using Uber or Lyft. My issues with Uber or Lyft are usually based on the drivers who are dumb and don’t know the area or where to go and the music they play in their car. I had one Lyft driver that flirted with me, but i was never afraid of this man. In fact I thought it was funny. I used to think these women are over exaggerating things, but now I am thinking they are telling the truth. Is just that these things don’t happen to me because of my appearance. I’m a person who keeps to myself. I don’t tend to talk to people I don’t know and I’m fat. Maybe men don’t attack me because they know I probably have at least 100 more pounds of me than them. Oh and don’t take this post the wrong way. In no way am I mad that I don’t get cat called or assaulted. In fact I see it as a blessing in disguise. I used to get mad that men never showed me any attention and now I think it’s a good thing because it probably kept me safe this whole time.