catnipsoup replied to your post “I don’t recall Tilly ever actually specifying gender when talking...”
YUP! I noticed a pointed lack of gender specification when she said "soldier" and "musician" so >w>
I just noticed it after someone in the tags was bashing the show for making Tilly ‘obnoxiously hetero’ and while yeah the show is still falling under heteronormativity, they were only talking about past boyfriends because Ash is a guy. And since Stamets is dating/married (still unclear I think) to a guy, it’d make sense for him to say that there’s a guy in a band.












