Can you help me highlight some important features in my birth chart??
Things I should take care of and aspects to be proud of, maybe? I'm a beginner and need to learn a few things about myself in order to heal.
Hi!💕 I'm happy to aid you in understanding your birth chart with the intention to heal. That's a very nice approach to have!
This is not proofread lol sorry =)
Alright, usually, important things to look at first are the shape (bundle, buckef,...), houses (interceptions?), retrogrades and general patterns (stellium,...).
Looking at your chart, (side note because this blog is also stray kids related: you have a very similar chart to Changbin from lol also with that Venus in Virgo, it's almost identical in shape) you have a slay chart with 4 "areas" filled. Your chart is centered around the fixed signs and the only celestial bodies that don't follow this pattern are your Sagittarius Pluto and Virgo Venus (which still don't disrupt the pattern).
With squares and oppositions very prominent in your chart, you may be strongly conflicted within yourself. You may feel as if parts of you are always fighting against each other, whether it be your feelings of security and comfort vs your path and lessons to learn (you may have to go out of your comfort zone to learn life lessons and walk the path of healing with that moon square nn)
I see how social contact, relationship, business, partnership, deep soul connections and intimacy give you an escape from that constant feeling of conflict within you, seeing as Pluto and Venus specifically don't fall into a fixed sign and grant you mutability. It's like finally letting the breath go (=mutable) that you've been holding (=fixed).
Other things that strike my attention are your chart ruler in the 1st house, so in the sign of its rukership. This, with Aquarius and Uranian energy, may indicate a rather unique appearance and sense of style. The mc in Scorpio also suggest mistery, so perhaps people perceive you as somebody rather unique and a bit misterious because they just don't quite get you when they first meet you. You can seem a galaxy away and may also daydream a lot. You can also be quite unpredictable as you make up your mind once, and then jump into the challenge head first. You approach things suddenly yet with a lot of thought and intention.
Something you can definitely be proud of is the quality that you know how to stick up for yourself. You don't just let people hurt you and always have a good comeback though you can also be rather observant and shy in social settings. (I see how you write better than you speak?) Your creativity definitely is also accentuated here and you can feel like a misfit a lot, which couod be a reason why you yearn for soul connections so bad. You yearn to be validated and, although you really love to tell yourself and others you don't need validation, deep down you just want acceptance. With the Virgo Venus in the 7th house you can easily feel criticised (especially subconsciously) and may be a bit defensive, but this is only because you feel as if people just don't accept and understand you. Really, you just want somebody to recognize the little things and efforts you put into your relationships. You don't want to walk on eggshels and really simply yearn to be your true self.
One lesson to learn here (according to what catched my eye, which is gonna be different for everybody) is really that you are allowed to voice what you're feeling and people need to know. Because although you like to come off as somebody who is just unapologetically themselves and does whatever they want, you are mostly afraid of not being appreciated. You must learn to apprechiate yourself and let yourself be. By simply being you and expressing yourself without feeling like you need a galaxy between you and somebody else to stay safe from disappointment and judgement, you can achieve so much more personal growth. Don't hide yourself behind a wall of who you aren't to come off a certain way. As an Aquarius, I totally understand how tempting it can be to just build all these layers around yourself to be able to control just who you let in and who you shut out. But don't shut people out. I know you can stick up for yourself. Use that ability and make it a defense mechanism, not hiding. 💕
If you do that, you might find that inner conflict lessens as you stop creating different sides of yourself which then can't hinder you in finding who you truly are and seek to be.
Lastly, my recommendation here is really to take this all as a suggestion of how I see you. Pick out the things that resonate and you are ready to confront. Astrology should never be used for assumption. I just want to grant you the scheme so you can go on by yourself, like a little push before you learn how to ride the bike for the first time. Because only you truly know who you are and who you want to be, what your tendencies are, what you choose,...
Hope I could help you!🤍 Have a nice day/night.✨
