#cheaters are evil

[who-the-fk-is-jewel]

I need someone to recommend music to listen to after getting cheated on that isn't "UwU I want him back so baaad he hurt me so much!!" And instead is "FUCK him I'm the best and he lost a real one and he's evil and I'm fantastic!"

[who-the-fk-is-jewel]

Ykw this is what I get for being empathetic to my ex using AI bc he was "too emotionally drained"....

(ew)

[jasjamjaz]

My best friend, who has been married for less than 3 years and has a 10 month old son, told me her husband cheated on her while she was pregnant and she just recently found the evidence on his phone when she was using it to take pictures of their baby.

She can't leave him, because he pays all the bills and she loved him enough to start a family together.

She had a future planned with him, wanted children and to build a home with him.

Now she has an appointment to get her tubes removed so she can never get pregnant again.

She feels so guilty for bringing her own child into this evil world. Where she had hope and dreams before she sees only pain and enduring now.

This same friend never had her father because he cheated on her mother and left them when she was a toddler.

Men fuck up everything they touch.

My mother has never been married. She has 3 daughters from 2 different men. Both men cheated on her and never made a commitment to her.

She had dreams and plans for a home, but has only lived in apartments as a single mother and never had any house to make her own. Because the men in her life couldn't step up.

Men ain't shit.

I know there are good men out there. My co-worker tells me all the time how much he loves his wife, how their 2 adult children are so important to him. How he plans trips to take his wife to her favorite places. How he helps to make their house a home for her even after 30 years of marriage.

Men can be trustworthy

I have a guy friend who works to better himself for his family. Who has 2 babies with his wife, just graduated police training to get a better job for his family, who spends his days being a father and not "babysitting his own kids"

Men can be loving.

So why can't the women who mean the most to me find men who are good to them?