#cheeksweets

[darcydarling]

Rules: 

 Tag the person who tagged you and let them know when you’re finished

 Answer the questions and tag 20 people

 Let the tagged people know they’ve been tagged

I was tagged by yozora-no-ai thank you very much! <3

General Appearance

1. How tall are you?- 167 cm / 5′6 2. What color and style is your hair? - straight, dark red, reaches my bellybutton with sideway bangs over the left part of my face and two shorter strands beside my face 3. What color are your eyes? dark brown 4. Do you wear glasses? only sunglasses 5. Do you wear braces? I had braces when I was in middle school though they didn’t really do anything, my teeth weren’t weird 6. What is your fashion style? I like cute dresses and skirts and cute colours and black, I have only one pair of jeans that’s blue, I don’t buy blue jeans rather other colours, my favourites are purple and red

You In General

7. What’s your full name? Nina Maria + some random Austrian surname that doesn’t sound cool 8. When were you born?  5th of December 9. How old are you? 21 19 forever 10. Where are you from/ where do you live now? Austria, I’ll move to a different city in November but not in a different country 11. Do you have siblings? no, I’m not sure if this is good or bad 12. What school do you go to? I started university in October last year  13. What kind of student are you? the lazy one that doesn’t study but usually picks up most of the necessary stuff through listening to the teachers talking 14. Do you like school? I like seeing my friends frequently but school in general not so much, though ever since I go to university I miss school since I don’t really have friends there 15. What are your favorite subjects? English and Chemistry 16. What are your favorite TV shows? I like Avatar the last Airbender and Adventure Time 17. Favorite movies? The First Strike because obvious reasons... I also like Baymax, How to train your dragon 1 and 2, and the Hunchback of Notre Dame 18. Favorite books? I don’t read books, I read fanfictions... does that count? 19. Favorite pastime? playing 3DS, reading fanfics, rping, kpop :3 sometimes drawing 20. Do you have any regrets? many 21. What is your dream job? prosecutor 22. Would you like to get married one day and where? maybe, somewhere nobody watches me do so and afterwards have a party with my friends and all? I just don’t want people to attend the wedding because the thought of that frightens me, it’s like oral presentations at school and it’s stupid 23. Would you like to have kids one day? NO. Maybe adopting one but rather no. 24. Girly girl, regular girl, tomboy? I used to be a tomboy but I guess I changed into a geeky girly girl 25. Do you like shopping? not so much 26. What countries have you visited? Austria, Italy, Greece, Germany, the Czech Republic, France, Hungary, Tunisia, Bulgaria, the United Kingdom (England to be exact), Ireland... I think that was it...?  27. What’s the scariest nightmare you had? I never have scary nightmares, my nightmares are emotionally hurting me usually but 98% of my dreams are just weird and no nightmares but I guess there was this one weird dream I had as a kid a few times which wasn’t really scary either but just like being squeezed by something nonexisting..? 28. Do you have enemies? yes. 29. Do you have a s/o? whiteknightress c: 30. Do you believe in miracles? something similar to that, yes

I don’t know who’s been tagged before but I tag whiteknightress, nightfoot, suguelya and cheeksweets :3 Do it if you like

[elsmaster]

cheeksweets replied to your post:~*Hyvää syntymäpäivää!!!!!!!*~ <3 I hope you...

It would be a mighty shame if we had to kill her afterwards - on her BIRTHDAY. Don’t be cruel Aby. :c

Hey hey hey, no one gets killed for blowing up a Chantry or two! Ever. In any universe. Nope. Nuh uh. Shush. 

[elsmaster]

cheeksweets replied to your post:It’s past 9.02 am in my time zone, which means...

thank you for making me feel young Elina. In all seriousness though - happy birthday! (I’ll post an obnoxious fb post on your wall).

You’re welcome! I have accepted my role as the old fart who somehow befriends people much younger than herself and thus makes everyone feel young and beautiful! It’s a very noble goal I have in life. 

And thank you. For the obnoxious post as well. 

[elsmaster]

pandamort replied to your post: Hulda’s love can be a bit overwhelming...

where can i get twenty of these :c

http://www.labradori.fi/pentuvalitys/

cheeksweets replied to your post: Hulda’s love can be a bit overwhelming...

never stop posting pictures of your beautiful dog ahhhhh so cute!!

I wouldn’t stop even if someone asked me to! Because Hulda is a precious little lump of dumb and her preciousness needs to be shared with the world. 

[elsmaster]

cheeksweets replied to your post:abessinier replied to your post “Whenever I see...

hahaha totally see what you mean there. A lot of my friendships are like that too. We both sort of feel the same way regarding spending time. “required” meetings are strange as hell, esp. at particular times.

They are strange as hell. I’ve genuinely had people in my life who have not quite understood that even if I haven’t talked to them or seen them in weeks, or months, even, I don’t suddenly hate them. I know it’s mostly insecurity on their part, but I’m also selfish enough to think it’s actually their problem and not mine, and if that makes me a dick, I’ll wear my dickness with pride! (... wait, what?) 

[elsmaster]

abessinier replied to your post “Whenever I see text posts about being an introvert on my dash, I’m...”

Same here... wtf romanticizing everything... on top of that Im HSP and people all go with the frail little flower shit while Im just a hysterical asshole. Tumblr... >__>

Have I mentioned that I really love your attitude about everything. : D But yeah, the whole “frail vulnerable and tormented introverts are superior beings” shtick gets really old really fast and isn’t actually cute at all. But hey, everyone’s feelings are valid on Tumblr, so who are we to judge!

cheeksweets replied to your post “Whenever I see text posts about being an introvert on my dash, I’m...”

To be fair - I am introvert but I DO think people eventually have a right to say "well you know, you need to make a move now". If someone says no to an invitation often but never really initiates contact, a friendship can and will die.

Also true, but at least in my case, the friendships I value the most are based on a sort of mutual understanding that we hang out when we hang out, and there’s no need to push it. My best friend lived in the States for a year and a half after high school and I only talked to her a handful of times during her stay. When she came back, we spent one night drinking wine and catching up and then we moved in together for two and a half years. I’ve seen her twice this year, even though we live in the same city, but neither of us gives a shit because when we do meet (and it’s usually under the pretense of “getting a quick cup of coffee” that then turns into coffee, dinner, twelve drinks and pizza at 3 am), we just pick up right where we left off. 

And it’s not like I never ask anyone to spend time with me. My problem is with people expect there to be monthly meetings because “FRIENDSHIP >:C”. Forcing rules on a friendship is, at least in my opinion, pretty much the quickest way to kill it.

There are two different words in Finnish for the English word “friend”. The other one (kaveri) means more like a casual buddy who you sometimes meet up with and who you know well enough for them to be more than an acquaintance, and the other one (ystävä) means a proper, real friend you’d pretty much take a bullet for. Most people I hang out with fall under the first definition, and as awfully cruel as it may sound, I wouldn’t be all that devastated about falling out of touch with any of them. The latter category, though? I will fight tooth and nail to keep them in my life. 

Oh look, an accidental novel!

[elsmaster]

cheeksweets replied to your post: cheeksweets replied to your post:Someone needs to...

………. freckles are cultural appropriation. Like - I …. I can’t take otherkin seriously but I could not in my wildest dreams imagine that this is where you’d end up. I’m so sorry/

Internet crazies are my (not so) secret guilty pleasure (I'm the person who reads the comments on online news articles and regrets it every time) but I swear Tumblr has taken the whole thing to an entirely new level of "What in the Actual Blue Flying Fuck Is Going On". Sometimes it's gloriously entertaining, sometimes it just crosses the line over to, well, despair.

[elsmaster]

cheeksweets replied to your post:Someone needs to come drag me away from the crazy...

oh dear god what’s it about??

Absolutely anything and everything. I'm in a limbo of "I'll just see what the crazies in the otherkin tag are talking about oh wow how did I end reading about how fake freckles are cultural appropriation what happened how did I end up in here someone save me" and because I clearly have no sense of self-preservation, I can't stop. It's like when you go to Wikipedia to quickly check one thing and somehow end up surfing through ninety-five different articles only to find yourself reading the list of Fellows of the Royal Society elected in 1688 or something.