Re: the bi lesbian thing, I am very much an aroace trans guy, but as a rule I view gender/sexuality labels as like. Imperfect but useful tools to describe complex experiences ppl have. So if someone seems to be using contradictory labels, I just assume they’re trying to communicate a very specific experience that we don’t have good language for yet. “Bi lesbian” doesn’t make a lot of sense to me based on like. Root definitions. But if someone wants to call themselves that I’m gonna support them bc they’re the expert on their own experiences
Also with the bi lesbian thing specifically, basically all the arguments I’ve seen seem to use the same exclusionary rhetoric that aphobes and transmeds/truscum use so I realllllly don’t agree w/ em lmao
oooh this was really well explained!














