#chronoage

[tourmaline-sys]

I just realized I will probably be pernamently 16 and my age will never be older than chronoage (age of body) again... It is so terryfying honestly

- Taiga Aisaka she/her [fem terms, human/tiger terms]

[villainous-collective]

The question of chronoage

I'd probably be flirted with more if we put our deadage in profile, one way or another...

(I mean, people are way too trusting with others not to lie, especially considering the obnoxious attitudes of some adults about it. We simply resent lying for reasons unrelated to morality, but I doubt there are many people who value staying true to oneself as much as we do.)

But there's the chrowd who wants specifically chronominors and there's the one who feels entitled to know what your "real" age is before you do anything and honestly we hate both of them with passion.

The one relationship we have currently, he reached out first and was never pushy about it and was never like yeah I absolutely want to know even when I offered to share as a way to make the relationship more serious and I do deeply prefer that kind of person, who wants to take the shot above all else not because of something they assume about me but because they like me for me. Even if I have to filter off 80% of people in the process, because I came to realize we'd probably won't work out in the end.

The person who was anxious to know what age I really am before even sending a flirty anon, and the person who only wanted chrono minors both made us really uncomfortable and upset in the end.

You only get to know in how much trouble you are if I like you. And to other beings who may be debating disclosing their deadage, or feel guilty for not doing it - always value yourself first, and have standards. Trust me, no relationship at all is better that an unfulfilling one.

(and if you have to say you're not ageist, you probably are)

[wierdqueerblog]

Was in a brief reddit argument, and it was full of homophobia and transphobia and discrimination against therians and plurals... which is all fine and dandy (/s) but some of them kept using my chronoage as an argument against me and my identities..? im not even mad about the blatant ageism im just age dysphoric now lmao