Dear Friend, just wanna say you are So Loved!
Jonathan in the bible was fully aware that David was going to be king, that David was going to inherit the position that he, Jonathan was meant to have. Yet despite Saul's rage at David's inevitable rise into authority, Jonathan loved David as a True Brother. The strength of God's love was in Him to overlook any offence or threat. David never knew all this would happen, but the calling of God revealed to him who were his true friends and who were his enemies. Sometimes we need to have a look around and celebrate the 'Jonathans' in our life because you didn't choose them, but God chose them for you.
Image: PlanetUNI Varsity Games Teams at PlanetUNI Camp 2012
Even when No One asks it of us, we still cheer out loud in unison; we scream our lungs out and we wave our hands around like idiots even if it's just to encourage One fellow teammate. No questioning it, there is a deep passion hidden deep within us for Unity; for True Friendship.
Image: Funny Faces, we love!
When given the chance we love to congregate in pictures; we also love it when someone else is willing to risk their sanity and dignity with us, because perhaps that is how friendship begins. C.S. Lewis describes it as:
Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "what! You too? I thought I was the only one..." -C.S. Lewis
Image: Me And My Girlie Bestie :)
In case you never realized, YOU are the only YOU I'll ever know. There will never ever be another YOU. No one else will talk the way you talk, laugh the way you laugh or be creative the way you're creative. YOU make me go WOWWWWWWWW!!! :D
You look at God and you say
There is truly none like you
But God looks at you and also says
There is truly none like YOU
There is no doubt that our love for friendship is an inheritance of God's heart. He may have had to show you in the fire; in the valley; on the mountains of your life - but come high or low He will wrestle with your understanding of true Godly love. Don't be deceived, you can't go through life loving only God and forsaking love for people. Scriptures reveals to us (see 1 John 1 & 2) that You and I must let God empower us to Love one another for it is only then that God's love is made complete in us, it is only then that we will truly Understand.
Image: Random ULU 35 dinner
For a while before I entered ULU 35, Evelyn Tan was hosting random UL dinners cooked singlehandedly by her (champion, I know). But it wasn't until I, MYSELF attempted this 'act of faith' (hosting a dinner singlehandedly) that I discovered how much I Truly Appreciated every aspect of her effort and love poured into this one single night of giving (heaps of hard work!). Not only did I discover how much I love it, but how much I was Loved by her.
In Captivating by John & Stasi Eldredge, we find out that:
A woman becomes truly beautiful when she knows that she is loved
If we all have a problem, our problem is not that we can't have perfect and ideal friendships. Our 'problem' is that God is just so madly in Love with us that He's willing to wrestle with our understanding of True Complete Godly Love.
Receive the Grace to love those around you like how He loves you.
Dream of Perfect Godly Love with Eyes Wide Open.