#cis het men

[welldonna]

I really wonder why men collectively don't care about being better people. Nvm, I know the answer. It's power. I generally feel like there is no cis het man that is worth me having sex with. Hence why I'm a 30-year-old virgin.

[poeticdeadshit]

I do NOT like cis het men and actually consider most of you ugly as shit. Do not comment on my posts and leave me the fuck alone.

[openfortressplanet]

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Banish the fantasy of male protection

[abitunexpected]

Men who think they're testing tongs are lying to themselves

Clacking tongs is so fucking stimmy, yall are autistic and don't even know it

[makingfeinds]

it seems like cis het men don’t have to form a real community with each other because they’re kinda the top of the food chain. like they can survive, or even worse survive more easily, by not showing or sharing deep emotions and thoughts beyond anger.

their bonds to those they see as equals are often based on superficial benefits...almost transactional rather than relational or communal. and like men i’ve known for a WEEK will tell me more shit than they’ve ever told their “best friend.”

which to me, sounds like friendships for cis het men do not include community or support. community, support, and emotions are things only found from women within a romantic context.

and thus, when they get into a romantic relationship, they don’t truly understand how to really show up for their women because they’ve never had to show real loyalty before, only superficial transaction/interactions. they’ve never had to really support someone while that person built themselves up.

and obviously not all cis het men. and i really don’t think any “points were made” here. it’s just an idea i had in the shower listening to good kid mad city. generalizing can be dangerous. but i’d at least claim that we’ve built a culture where this is an easy and normal story for cis het men to partake in.

a culture where cis het men have a hard time seeing other people as “humans” because they’ve never had to ~connect~ on a human level. their survival often didn’t rely on hard, honest conversations. how many cis het men have ever had to truly Share themselves with someone before they find a romantic partner?? and that woman is just supposed to either teach this man emotional intelligence or comply with his shit?

[spooky-gfs]

Things i don't understand:

Cis het men

I said to one that I wanted to touch fire because it was pretty and he suggested I slapped myself if I wanted to do that

[boy-obsesed-barbie]

The 67.4% of lesbians who have experienced abuse from women is concerning and absolutely needs to be discussed. However, people seem to assume that it is only other lesbians abusing lesbians when the study never fucking said that. There is no distinction made in the study of lesbian vs bi women in that statistic. It is naive to think that only lesbians are abusing other lesbians. 

We need to talk about abuse between women in both communities. It is an important conversation to have, but we have to and can talk about it in ways that doesn’t fucking demonize one group or the other. It is so disgusting that this is happening and of course cis het men are feeding into this bullshit and wanting us to fight each other instead of working together to stop this abuse from happening.

It is total madness that we are allowing this bullshit to happen. It needs to end and it needs to end now if we want to do anything about abuse in our communities.

[shiraglassman]

My best friend has been on a quest for individually wrapped wipes and wound up buying these to try them out. We were both cracking up over the aggressively masculine packaging (looks like a condom!) and the idea of guys needing their own separate butt wipes.

The real punchline is that according to her, they’re TOO SOFT. As in, the dude wipes are softer than the regular ones.