OKAY ABOUT THE HAIRCUT THING. THIS IS IMPORTANT I ACTUALLY HAVE A LOT OF THOUGHTS ON THIS. for some reason, people understand that feminine people don't cut their hair, wear makeup, or dress to look attractive. but people don't extend the same reasoning to masculine people. the idea that some guys like to have short hair and don't care what other people think looks most attractive doesn't cross people's minds and it really bothers me.
like, if a girl cut her hair from waist-length to a bob or something and people were sobbing about it being a downgrade on the internet, that would be so crazy offensive. i don't want to be "if the tables were turned" person but in this specific instance!!!
thank u for coming to my ted talk, sorry for ranting
yea i get u ! i feel like its a “i will act like i can control your appearance but also i know this is wrong because i dont do it to women cc’s” type mindset








