Hi! I'm having a tremendous amount of difficulty classpecting myself, so much so that it is bringing me tons of stress because I HAVE to get it right. Would you happen to know any ways to make it less troubling, or easier to do?
stop worrying so much and have fun with it. its a visuopoetic language game you’re playing with yourself, not a way to like force yourself into being a particular way forever. nobody actually works that way and its unhealthy to try. adopt whatever combination of labels suits your fancy at any particular moment, and if it stops feeling fun and fulfilling and exciting just change your mind.
I do it all the time. i used to think of myself as a mage but it was sort of an unhealthy fixation i was using to cope or force a sense of identity in myself. once i switched to heir it also got easier to just think about how any given class speaks to my experience and to imagine how my behavior might adapt depending on what lens i’m thinking with at the time. they’re a collective toolset, not a system for prescribing you your personhood. you already own that and nothing’s ever taking it away. so just try to enjoy it in yourself, and if classpects help you do that in any way at all then awesome! but even if they dont, its not like you need them to be a cool and kind personive always struggled with answering this sort of question, and this is the best i got right now. hope it helpskeep rising~