CHANGES: Given the already incredibly deep love between Robert and His fiancée, it was amazingly erotic to watch their love soar to even higher heavens during our throuple's 11 nights at a cabin at 10,000 feet in the southern Rocky Mountains. If you have been following my blog, you know that we have been thinking of His fiancée as my Ex wife and me as her Ex husband, and that I have been psychologically conditioned to want to give her away at their wedding in front of family and friends. Our recent 11 days together gave us the time to confirm that their wedding will occur under the large cottonwood trees beside the river on my beautiful remote ranch in early May, when the temperatures are moderate and no biting insect has yet emerged. New: I told the engaged couple that I will pay to fly in friends and family from all over the country, and will rent for four nights the entire closest hotel (45 minutes away). We had been thinking that relatives and friends would most easily accept serial monogamy: her divorce from me so that Robert and His fiancée could have a traditional wedding; or a grey traditional wedding (without legal divorce and legal marriage license) where everyone except Robert, my Ex and myself would believe it to be a legal wedding with a marriage license after legal divorce from me. A traditional divorce and traditional wedding might still occur, given that the concept wildly arouses my Ex and myself during our own bed play. However, we have now begun to think toward a polyandry wedding so that The Love of Our Lives will have two co-husbands, where Robert will be the romantic and sexual lead and I will be the financial and ranch lead.
Robert immediately took to the co-husband concept, because it is honest about our throuple. In fact, last winter Robert designed his engagement ring to include three diamonds, one diamond for each of the three of us. His fiancée is concerned that a polyandry wedding might seem too weird for many of the guests, as well as for people living in the town that we frequent for services and groceries. Even so, I think that she looks forward with pride to having two husbands. For myself, even though I have found the idea of being Her Ex arousing (I have been introduced as her Ex many times), I feel far more comfortable remaining her husband even if Robert is the romantic-lead husband.
