For many years my beautiful wife and I swung with other couples. Unfortunately, when the other women were even 75% as beautiful and alluring as Kay, my wife would end up angry. I rarely dared to physically respond to the many beautiful women who flirted with my handsome, masculine self. These dynamics led Kay and me into a cuckold relationship, where her play with other men induced phenomenal sex between my wife and myself. Then we decided that she should seek a steady boyfriend to reduce the chance of an STD. After trying out 3 dozen potential boyfriends, in early 2024 Kay met Robert, 6' 4", all muscle, great personality, and self-assured like myself. We three became friends. Kay fell deeply into sexual and romantic love, like only before for me during our early years. For the first time ever she no longer wanted my cock in her pussy, though her soulmate love for me remained as strong as ever. After a few days away at Robert's mountain home, she becomes anxious to return to me and our ranch. Over our decades together our bed play has included a variety of wild fantasies. Beginning about May 2025 almost all of Kay's and my orgasms together (usually daily when she is home) occurred with fantasies of a multiyear engagement to Robert. These orgasmic fantasies usually end with a grey/cuckold wedding, without divorce or marriage license so as to minimize financial hassles. However, sometimes Kay and I imagine that her love for Robert becomes so overwhelming that she ends up desiring his last name so we divorce. During September 2025 Robert spoke with Kay several times about a multiyear engagement, and he has told her that he plans to surprise her with a formal engagement celebration. My love for my forever soulmate Kay is so strong and pure that I am very happy for her. And I believe her when she says that she will always keep me satisfied with great orgasms despite no longer allowing my cock inside her pussy. I'm happy though concerned about financial complications.
Before Robert my wife had never loved any other man even close to as much as she loved me. But by early 2025, a year after she met Him, she had come to love giant-cocked Robert romantically and sexually far far more deeply than those types of love for me. For the first time in our long, very happy and sex filled marriage, she denied my cock entry into her pussy and began to keep her beautiful breasts covered. Moreover she began to fantasize about becoming his fiancée, which occurred on October 30, 2025. Since then most of her's and my frequent lovemaking has been heightened by thoughts of me giving her away to Robert at their wedding.
Top caption by @neverreallycheated. Second caption by @wives-in-heat. Bottom caption by @wifesharingconfessions.
For over two decades my wife and I both played with many other couples and singles. After an STD scare in 2021 I decided to stop playing with others, and I asked my wife to search for a steady side guy. I helped her to write her profiles on dating websites. They emphasized that she was happily married, had great sex with her husband, and still loved her husband deeply, but even so was looking for a longterm relationship with a tall Alpha bull or Dom. And she thought it would be incredibly sexy if the new man induced her to fall into love with him, and perhaps eventually claim exclusive rights to her pussy. Without showing her beautiful face, I included photos of her luscious 38C-24-34 body, as well as several photos of her labial piercings with various locks and jewelry. Since our tenth wedding anniversary I had kept her pussy locked when she was on the prowl, so as to reduce her fucking around and so reduce the chance of STD's.
Over the next couple of years she was contacted via online chat by perhaps 2,000 men. By reviewing the profiles of the men we reduced those to a few hundred. After her extensive online chats and phone calls, those were culled to perhaps 100 with whom she'd have lunch with her pussy locked. If during the lunch she liked the man, then they'd kiss, fondle and suck in her vehicle. When she returned home we'd discuss the man in an effort to determine whether he had longterm potential for her happiness, and could potentially become friends with me. The culling and selection process gave her three dozen men whom she fucked from summer 2021 through February 2024. A few lasted a couple of months, but most she never bothered to see again after just one afternoon or one night of fucking with them.
Finally in March 2024 she met 6-foot 4-inch tall, manly tough, rodeo champion Robert, whose cock was larger than every one of the several dozen men whom she had enjoyed during our marriage. Her/our search was over. She had found her steady side guy, and Robert and I became good friends. In less than a year my wife's romantic and sexual love for Robert exceeded those types of love for me, so for the first time in our long and sex filled marriage she denied my cock entry into her pussy. They became engaged at the end of October 2025.
My longtime followers know my story, but these captions by @cuckoldlifeofjosie induce me to tell it again. For more than two decades I led my wife as we played with many other couples and singles. Neither of us ever fell into love with anyone else like our deep love for each other, so we settled into the idea that that would always be true. Then in March 2024 we met tall and manly tough Robert, who for 25 years had earned his living by winning rodeo contests in bull riding and bareback bronco riding. He knew how to ride my wife, and his cock was larger than those of all of the several dozen men whom she had enjoyed.
Because of an STD scare in 2021 I had wanted us to stop playing around. As Robert visited my ranch a few times he and I became good friends, and all three of us got along so well that we began to act as a throuple. I told my wife to feel free to let her emotions carry her away, and they did. By early 2025 her romantic and sexual love for Robert far exceeded those types of love for me, and for the first time in our long and very happy marriage she no longer allowed my cock inside her pussy and she no longer let me see or feel her bare breasts.
Her graduate degrees had been in psychology and sexual behavior, and she/we began pairing our sexual pleasures and orgasms with her desires -- psychologically conditioning me/us to want her to become Robert's fiancée. On October 30, 2025, He asked her to be His forever, and she responded, "Yes. YES! I want to belong to you completely!" After that she began telling Robert, and me, that she wanted Him to claim total ownership of her. And when He fucked her in her ass her naturally submissive self felt completely and forever owned by Him.
In spring 2026 Robert told us that we needed to think of her as my Ex wife, His fiancée and His future wife, and accept that I was no longer her husband but instead was her Ex husband. To her's and my surprise, the concept of being each other's Ex when we made love (in our diminished manner) was HOT. And every time that the three of us are together, with everyone viewing them as the deeply in love couple and me as just their close friend, it conditions us to see ourselves that way. Now I sometimes feel it is wrong for me to think of her sexually because I am just their friend, and she sometimes admits that her ever increasing romantic and sexual love for Robert is slowly pushing out those types of love for me.
But it is all so so arousing! And given the effects of the psychological conditioning, I am definitely looking forward to giving her away to Robert at their wedding. I had wanted to have a new house constructed for them on my beautiful ranch, but due to the bureaucracy of county and state permits I'm now going to just add an addition to my house for their own space. Until then they will use the guest suite and his travel trailer.
Robert's and my then wife's most erotic and seductive text messages occurred during the last couple of months of 2024 and all of 2025. I ghost wrote many of my wife's messages to Robert, and she would approve them for sending. A great many seductive and erotic thoughts that she was too shy to write herself, became relatively easy for her to approve. Being an Alpha man, I knew the concepts that would help to capture Robert's heart and help to induce him to love her. I believed and still believe that romantic love is the most wonderful feeling emotion possible in a human. I loved my wife so completely that I wanted to give her the most wonderful feeling possible -- new love. And my wife and I were such deep soulmates that I empathetically enjoyed her feelings of new love. Neither she nor I have ever told Robert that I was the author and composer of a couple of hundred text messages that contributed to Robert falling deeply into love with her. At the end of October 2025 they became engaged to marry, and since spring 2026 all three of us think of her as my Ex wife and think of me as her Ex husband.
I often felt like this caption during the first 19 months of my wife's relationship with tall, manly tough Robert, whose cock is larger than the several dozen others she has enjoyed. The confusion ended when she enthusiastically accepted Robert's marriage proposal on October 30, 2025. Robert became her Main Man, her Primary Man, her preferred romantic and sexual partner, her future husband. I have effectively become her Ex husband. That will be confirmed to family and friends when I give her away to Robert at their wedding, which will completely end any residual confusion.
I often felt like this caption during the first 19 months of my wife's relationship with tall, manly tough Robert, whose cock is larger than the several dozen others she has enjoyed. The confusion ended when she enthusiastically accepted Robert's marriage proposal on October 30, 2025. Robert became her Main Man, her Primary Man, her preferred romantic and sexual partner, her future husband. I have effectively become her Ex husband. That will be confirmed to family and friends when I give her away to Robert at their wedding, which will completely end any residual confusion.
A day or two before she leaves for a few to several days/nights alone with HIM, Robert's fiancée goes to the beauty salon to beautify her hair and nails, and also has a Brazilian waxing to make her pussy and ass baby smooth. Rather than just sitting with me, she makes love with me (in our diminished manner) while reminding me about how deeply she loves 6 foot, 4 inch tall, manly tough Robert and his giant cock. Then I endure her absence.
First caption by @stateofcompersion. Second by @delveroflore.
CHANGES: Given the already incredibly deep love between Robert and His fiancée, it was amazingly erotic to watch their love soar to even higher heavens during our throuple's 11 nights at a cabin at 10,000 feet in the southern Rocky Mountains. If you have been following my blog, you know that we have been thinking of His fiancée as my Ex wife and me as her Ex husband, and that I have been psychologically conditioned to want to give her away at their wedding in front of family and friends. Our recent 11 days together gave us the time to confirm that their wedding will occur under the large cottonwood trees beside the river on my beautiful remote ranch in early May, when the temperatures are moderate and no biting insect has yet emerged. New: I told the engaged couple that I will pay to fly in friends and family from all over the country, and will rent for three nights the entire closest hotel (45 minutes away). We had been thinking that relatives and friends would most easily accept serial monogamy: her divorce from me so that Robert and His fiancée could have a traditional wedding; or a grey traditional wedding (without legal divorce and legal marriage license) where everyone except Robert, my Ex and myself would believe it to be a legal wedding with a marriage license after legal divorce from me. A traditional divorce and traditional wedding might still occur, given that the concept wildly arouses my Ex and myself during our own bed play. However, we have now begun to think toward a polyandry wedding so that The Love of Our Lives will have two co-husbands, where Robert will be the romantic and sexual lead and I will be the financial and ranch lead.
Robert immediately took to the co-husband concept, because it is honest about our throuple. In fact, last winter Robert designed his engagement ring to include three diamonds, one diamond for each of the three of us. His fiancée is concerned that a polyandry wedding might seem too weird for many of the guests, as well as for people living in the town that we frequent for services and groceries. Even so, I think that she looks forward with pride to having two husbands. For myself, even though I have found the idea of being Her Ex arousing (I have been introduced as her Ex many times), I feel far more comfortable remaining her husband even if Robert is the romantic-lead husband.
All three of our logical minds are now planning a polyandry wedding where Robert will officially become the lead co-husband for romance and sex, and I will officially become the co-husband leading finances and ranch management. Despite our logical plans, when Robert's fiancée makes love with me (in our diminished manner) we continue to orgasm to the fantasy of a divorce from me so that she can become Robert's legal wife and have only one husband, Robert, while I would officially be her divorced Ex husband.
CHANGES: Given the already incredibly deep love between Robert and His fiancée, it was amazingly erotic to watch their love soar to even higher heavens during our throuple's 11 nights at a cabin at 10,000 feet in the southern Rocky Mountains. If you have been following my blog, you know that we have been thinking of His fiancée as my Ex wife and me as her Ex husband, and that I have been psychologically conditioned to want to give her away at their wedding in front of family and friends. Our recent 11 days together gave us the time to confirm that their wedding will occur under the large cottonwood trees beside the river on my beautiful remote ranch in early May, when the temperatures are moderate and no biting insect has yet emerged. New: I told the engaged couple that I will pay to fly in friends and family from all over the country, and will rent for four nights the entire closest hotel (45 minutes away). We had been thinking that relatives and friends would most easily accept serial monogamy: her divorce from me so that Robert and His fiancée could have a traditional wedding; or a grey traditional wedding (without legal divorce and legal marriage license) where everyone except Robert, my Ex and myself would believe it to be a legal wedding with a marriage license after legal divorce from me. A traditional divorce and traditional wedding might still occur, given that the concept wildly arouses my Ex and myself during our own bed play. However, we have now begun to think toward a polyandry wedding so that The Love of Our Lives will have two co-husbands, where Robert will be the romantic and sexual lead and I will be the financial and ranch lead.
Robert immediately took to the co-husband concept, because it is honest about our throuple. In fact, last winter Robert designed his engagement ring to include three diamonds, one diamond for each of the three of us. His fiancée is concerned that a polyandry wedding might seem too weird for many of the guests, as well as for people living in the town that we frequent for services and groceries. Even so, I think that she looks forward with pride to having two husbands. For myself, even though I have found the idea of being Her Ex arousing (I have been introduced as her Ex many times), I feel far more comfortable remaining her husband even if Robert is the romantic-lead husband.
This top caption by @floridwifelover could have been my wife and myself during summer 2024 when she was dating tall, manly tough, rodeo champion Robert -- whose cock was larger than every one of the several dozen that she had enjoyed -- except that I have always kept my master bedroom for myself while my wife and her lover use the guest suite. By early 2025 she loved Robert more than me, which had never happened with any other man, and my wife began reserving her pussy and ass for ONLY giant-cocked Robert (like the second and third captions by @loveheelsalot). At the end of October 2025 she gladly accepted his marriage proposal. During spring 2026 everyone in our throuple began to think of her as my Ex wife and think of me as her Ex husband. Someday I'll give her away at her wedding to Robert, which will make them the husband and wife couple within our throuple.
Robert, His fiancée (who legally is still my wife), and I have been having a wondrously happy time together. Our synergy is amazing. We enjoyed them being the engaged couple at the county July 4 parade. Several times Robert or His fiancée introduced me as her Ex husband. One friend's response: "The more the merrier."
Yesterday was one week into staying at a rental cabin at 10,000-feet elevation in the southern Rocky Mountains, and visiting amazingly beautiful places and artsy mountain towns with giant-cocked Robert and his fiancée, whom we now think of as my Ex wife. It is both arousing and disturbing to watch the deeply in love couple hold hands, snuggle, cuddle and deeply kiss while out and about, making it clear to everyone that THEY are the couple and I am just their close friend. Last evening I was on the couch writing my blog when my Ex leaned her head around the corner to say goodnight. I asked her to come kiss me, and it turned out that she was wearing the most sexy lingerie for HER MAN, Robert. She kissed me, but then struggled to quickly pull away from me as I tried to massage her breasts and pussy through her lingerie. I was really hurt that more and more she seems to be seeing me as her platonic soulmate friend, who is no longer her lover.
It used to be so hot introducing Robert as my wife's friend. Then hotter introducing him as her boyfriend. Then far hotter as my wife's fiancé. I now introduce Robert as my Ex wife's fiancé, which is less hot than wife's fiancé. I wonder how it will feel to say the words "Ex wife's new husband"?
Halfway through 11 days and nights in the alpine and subalpine of the southern Rocky Mountains with Robert and His fiancée (whom we all think of as my Ex wife), the emotional effects on me seem to be changing. It had felt deeply erotic to watch them in my SUV's mirror constantly kissing, hugging, snuggling and holding hands in the back seat while I drove, or watching them while the three of us hiked together, or while I sat across from them during meals or while just sitting in our living room. And it had felt erotic to look at her hand with His engagement ring resting on His upper thigh when he drove and I was in the back seat. And it had been especially erotic whenever she stepped over to me from Robert's lap, hug or kiss, to hug me and kiss me fiercely. However, yesterday, Wednesday, halfway through our 11 days and nights together it was just becoming normal. I was feeling more ennui than arousal at all of the above actions, even when His fiancée was passionately kissing ME, and even as I listened to them making love for hours. And when she kissed me deeply and passionately I almost felt as if that was wrong: that The Love of My Life now belongs to Robert; and I am now just their close friend. I hope that erotic feelings return to me. I perceived her feelings of disappointment when she could not arouse my own passions and cock when she hugged, stroked, and kissed me. What is happening to me?
Robert (the fiancé of The Love of My Life) and I have become really close friends. He is obviously now the Primary Man of our shared woman, while I am the secondary man in our throuple. Outside the bedroom, Robert and I respect each other as Alpha men who have complementary experiences and knowledge. I cannot recall ever having another male friend with whom I've so enjoyed being around since I was a child. As an adult, almost all on my male friends have been in professions similar to mine, and our conversations tended to discuss topics in my profession. Because of our different backgrounds Robert and I learn much from each other. And his personality exudes happiness. No wonder The Love of My Life -- now my Ex wife -- loves him. This caption by @emotionally-cuckolded is accurate in its general concepts, except I will never give up my Master Bedroom in MY house to the Primary Couple of our throuple. When at my ranch they use the guest suite of my house, or his travel trailer.
It's Monday morning and Robert has gone to oversee a construction project and will not return to our 10,000-foot-elevation rental cabin in the southern Rocky Mountains until this evening. Robert and his fiancée (my Ex wife) made love almost constantly since Friday evening, while breaking for meals over great conversation among the three of us. Yesterday afternoon I called through their door to request that they take a break from their lovemaking so that we three could take a hike. Our three-hour hike at 11,000 feet was beautiful. It included conversation on a wide variety of subjects, including their future wedding at my ranch. Robert treats his fiancée like this photo and caption by @sweetsubmissivegirly.
Yesterday, Friday evening, June 26, Robert, His fiancée (The Love of My Life whom all three of us now think of as my Ex wife), and I met at a cabin at 10,000 feet elevation in the Southern Rocky Mountains to begin 11 nights. Over the next 14 hours the engaged couple made tender love with His giant cock inside her pussy 5 times, and Robert ejaculated inside her 3 times. Plus she sucked on His giant cock a few times for over one-half hour each time. I listened from the other bedroom, with happiness for them but also angst, because I suspected that they were falling even deeper into love than their already incredibly deep love and I worried what that might mean for my future. When Robert's fiancée emerged this morning for coffee -- glowing with fulfillment before returning to His bed for another round of lovemaking -- I asked her about her emotions. She responded that like almost every one of their rendezvous she once again loved Him even more than ever before, and even more than she loved me during our early years together. Ten more days and nights together in the beautiful alpine and subalpine of the Southern Rockies -- with Robert and His fiancée being the Primary Couple and me being their third-wheel friend -- will obviously further psychologically condition us to perceive them as the deeply in love couple while relegating me further into the friend zone. I wonder whether she will ever make love with me again, even in our diminished manner (she only allows Robert's giant cock inside her pussy, ass and the deepest part of her throat, and only Robert get to view and feel her bare breasts). But OMG, The Love of My Life is happier than I've ever seen her.
Outside of the bedroom, Robert and I remain close friends with deep respect for each other, and both of us exhibit the characteristics of Alpha men.
Top caption by @adventuous125. Middle caption by @loveheelsalot. Bottom caption by @emotionally-cuckolded.
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