reminder no one should ever pressure you into a partnership of any kind especially not cause of their mental health and you shouldn’t be responsible for them and their happiness and mental health it shouldn’t all be dumped on you like that and you especially shouldn’t be guilted into it or coerced and ignored when you try to gently politely back out a kind “I’m not into that” should be enough you shouldn’t have to repeat yourself or raise your voice or give a big loud no to get the point across you shouldn’t have to get aggressive or repetitive for them to back off(this is a big one especially for men don’t let a girl push you around and ignore your no. If she does this and you have to get aggressive or loud for her to listen and then she’s calling you aggressive and a scary typical man, that’s manipulation. This can happen with any gender but it’s common for it to go under the radar with men because I don’t see a lot of people talking about men getting pushed around)
you should be able to reject them and leave safely for everyone involved. And if you can’t leave without them hurting themselves or you then that’s just not a safe relationship even if they didn’t mean to make it one. You should be able to speak your mind and have boundaries without retaliation, pushback, arguments, or the other person hurting themselves or you.
Even if they don’t directly ignore you saying no or they yell or tell you you’re trapped, if you know they’ll hurt themselves if you leave or don’t agree to something then that’s not safe and if they tell you you’re the only thing keeping them alive and their only person and they refuse to make friends outside of you because they say they just can’t trust anyone not like you that’s not healthy