it suddenly occurred to me that it's been a year since i made the conscious decision to stay single. looking back, a blessing in disguise happened and changed my life, for the better.
you could not imagine how many messages i have received all throughout telling me to enjoy my singlehood and i would always say that's exactly what i'm doing! haven't jumped into a relationship nor exclusively dated anyone and i even left my "2nd home". 😂
1. everything is indeed a process and things take time. when you don't know what to do just pause, pray for clarity and go with the flow.
2. celebrate your singleness! it's not that i don't feel free being in relationships but being on your own automatically puts you on self-discovery! it's one heck of a ride! i'm a very devoted partner so when i'm in a relationship i kind of focus on him, a little too much 😅
3. friendships. i saw the level of friendships people share with me. those who are truly concern and would not let you sulk. my friends really played an important role when i was moving on. i love you all guys, you know who you are. ❤️
so now,
1. i have a clearer picture of what i want in a lover and slowly building myself to be rightful to that kind of person.
2. i am enjoying the wait because there's much more to life than love, i would discover myself and the world and when i meet you i'll be ready to a beautiful world together
3. it's easy to love when things are beautiful, i would want to be with someone who makes me laugh, brings out the positive energy and all but at the end of the day i would choose someone who would love me even when I'm not lovable, who would choose me in spite of it all.
when the time is right the Lord will make it happen. so while you wait build the future wife that you ought to be enjoy yourself and go places ❤️
