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Caedqueer

[Tw: Brief mention of trauma]

Term and flag by: FANDOM user Contie / Tumblr user contievene, November 26th, 2021.

This is a broad term to unite queer trauma survivors who have had their queer identities affected by their trauma in some way. I wanted to create a term to acknowledge how trauma can impact one's experiences with one's own identity and queerness.

Caedqueer, or caedoqueer, is a broad identity describing someone who identifies as queer and feels that one's queerness or parts of one's queer identity have (whether presently or in the past) been altered or damaged, if not entirely "cut away," by trauma of some form.

One may still use this term if one's queer identity has been altered, damaged or "cut away" due to trauma in the past (even if, presently, they have recovered and have a strong connection with their queer identity) as long as this part of one's experience is something one wants a term to acknowledge.

The term may be used as:

A broad term for any folks who want a word to acknowledge that their queer identity has been/is being negatively affected by trauma/(a) traumatic experience(s).

A broad term for those who do not want to specify the identities that have been affected by trauma in this way (as opposed to more specific caed- labels).

This term is exclusive to trauma survivors and/or those with PTSD.

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Quoigirl and Quoiboy

Wiki pages: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Quoigirl https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Quoiboy

Quoigirl and quoiboy are terms to describe one who is unsure about one's gender, or how to define one's gender, but knows it (or a part of it) is girl or girl-related in some way or  boy or boy-related in some way, respectively.

Quoigirl and quoiboy are more specifics types of quoigender.

Quoigirl is different to quoifem as it specifies that ones gender is related to being a girl and/or girlhood in some way; it is not necessarily related to womanhood or being feminine or female. Quoiboy is different to quoimasc as it specifies that ones gender is related to being a boy and/or boyhood in some way; it is not necessarily related to manhood or being masculine or male.

One may experience other genders other in addition to being quoigirl or quoiboy, including other fin/mingender and/or fia/miaspec genders (respectively) that one has identified; the girl/girl-related gender(s) that one is describing as quoigirl or the boy-related gender(s) that one is describing as quoiboy may only be a part of one's gender. 

They may be used as genders on their own or combined with other terms. They may refer to a single gender or a multi/fluid gender.

History and Flags

The terms quoigirl and quoiboy were coined by FANDOM user Contie (Tumblr user contievene), August 14th 2021, upon request by reddit user u/hiitsyaz. 

The flags for these terms were created by FANDOM user Contie, August 14th 2021, inspired by the quoifem and quoimasc flags.