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Oh dear people of Tumblr, how glad I am to be here. I'm trying to figure out dating at nearly 40 as a single mom after leaving a really bad marriage and literally changing everything about myself and my life. Not a tall order at all! But I'm finally happy with me and my child and our new life. I'd like a companion but have no idea how to do this and am not at all interested in dating sites. How does one date in times like these?
Dating after 30
Me: " I think tinder is not dead" . . . . . . . . . #datings #datingonline #datingquotes #datingsites #datingafter30 #adating #adatingmusical #adatinggame #datingblog #datingbigirl #datingblackwomen #datingblogger #datingclass #datingcoachformen #datingcanada #datingdoor #datingdivas #datingevents #datingfree #datinghumor (at San Francisco, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3FKrVllmQZ/?igshid=g1j2mbg3b9kh
Introduction to Harper
Harper is a dating Rookie on her way to becoming a veteran.
Harper has been online dating since she was about 30. She’s now 33, that makes around 3 YEARS of her life that she’s been winking, liking, swiping and clicking her way through the single (and possibly not single, who knows if they’re telling the truth?) men of Mumbai.
In that time she’s probably had almost 100 dates (though she lost count) had several short flings, and 2 boyfriends.
She’s tried Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Happn, Ok Cupid. She’s swiped on Tinder, crossed paths on Happn, made the first move on Bumble, been paired with Facebook friends of friends on Hinge.
She’s had fun dates and boring dates, been ghosted, charmed and cheated on, fallen in love and had her heartbroken, and drunk way more alcohol than anyone should. She’s met nice guys, dull guys, guys who think they’re God’s gift, inept guys, hopeless wastes of time, some who didn’t look at all like their photos and some who were more attractive in real life, some short, some tall, some super lovely and some total fucking arseholes. And yet in all that time, she has to meet Mr. Right. So she carries on, war-torn and battle-scarred, living to date another day.
Harper was recently asked how she manages to do that, date after date, year after year, rejection after vanishing act after disappointment. And the answer is this: to be able to survive in this online dating war zone you have to be one of three things: (a) completely deranged, (b) a glutton for punishment, or (c) a hopeless optimist who in spite of all evidence to the contrary still believes that one day you might meet someone who is different. Harper is a little bit of all three.
#meh My dating pool is a lava pit. Burn baby, burn. I guess it’s back to good ole @tinder. #overit #datingafter30 #gettingtoooldforthis #scottsohot #scottsosingleandreadytomingle (at Las Vegas, Nevada) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsemX4CFrSG/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1a937ltiaxewd
What do you have against married men and separated guys?
Hmm well I'm not a person who is interested in being a homewrecker or to be a bandaid, rebound, babysitter, etc. There is no possible way that someone still entangled in a significant relationship like a marriage or is in the process of divorcing is emotionally healthy or ready to have any type of authentic relationship. I don't feel like being used, and that's pretty much what women who put themselves in such a situation are doing. And those men lie so fucking hard about their wives or exes, like who the fuck believes that BS? Not I. Sit your married for 8 years with 3 kids ass down, I know you didn't stay with or keep having kids with the monster you are describing so save it. Then there is the issue of most people in my dating pool sharing parenting duties with their ex or wife or whatever and there are just lines and boundaries you simply do not cross regarding that and if it's way too soon since a breakup or right before a breakup, your presence is gonna fuck shit up and no matter what you do, you'll step on toes. And fuck allll of that. Let me know when you are legally divorced with all the negotiations done and have allowed yourself a real healing process and then get at me.
Who are the top 5 men on your friends list that you wouldn't mind dating?
I'm sure there are a couple for when I become available, but I haven't really been paying attention to shit like that. I'm extremely picky and you have to be one hell of a man to get my attention in a dating scenario, that's just the way it is. I don't really look on FB for partners, that's more of a dating site thing.
#fun #datingafter30 #divorcingmama https://www.instagram.com/p/BqbATw_HNZU/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1l5fhmj5v2i3d
