Getting into an Argument with them
When Dwight gets upset, you know he's either been pushed to the limit, or it was just that bad.
He doesn't like to argue with anyone.
Shitty trials, shitty killers, shitty survivors.
And when you commented on that.
"Well, you're just a fucking bitch!"
And it will come out of nowhere.
When Dwight's upset, things just come out of his mouth.
It's like he's a whole other person.
Immediately, he'll realize what he said.
And he'll feel so bad about it that he shocked himself into silence.
He'll just make incoherent sounds trying to form an apology.
After about a minute of stuttering, he'll run into your arms and pull you into the tightest hug.
"I'm sorry; I didn't mean that! I'm sorry! I'm so so sorry!-"
And he will start crying too.
He'll continue blubbering apologies until you're able to stop him.
If you don't stop him, he'll go on for hours.
He'll remind you how much you mean to him. How much he loves you.
He might even be begging at your feet for forgiveness.
These arguments are extremely rare, so cut him some slack.
If you're upset anytime, he'll understand.
In the meantime, he'll do everything you like to make it up to you.
Because he loves you; and he never wants to lose you.
Jane is very vocal when she's upset.
It doesn't matter what happened. You'll know when she's upset.
Usually, she tries to stay out of everyone else's path.
She doesn't like taking out her anger on people who don't deserve it.
If you accidentally cross her path while she's upset, she'll probably snap at you.
Most likely, she'll tell you fuck off.
You have two options at this point: walk away or engage with her.
If you walk away she'll likely scoff at you.
"Oh, now you're too good for me?"
When she gets angry she just lashes out.
If you engage with her, get ready for a screaming battle.
Jane has a very loud voice and she isn't afraid to use it.
No matter how loud you yell, she'll find a way to yell louder.
And even if you do try to yell over her, she'll keep interrupting you while you're talking.
She has a habit of shutting people down when she's upset.
It's a: my way or the highway type of deal.
It's best to give her space.
Give her some time to cool off before approaching her again.
She'll be very embarrassed and apologize sincerely.
She knows what she did was wrong and, even if why she was upset was your fault, she shouldn't have said those things.
She's very good about fessing up to her mistakes, even though she doesn't like to.
She won't be upset if you're angry with her. She knows she would be too if she were in your shoes.
After a little time to decompress she wants to talk about what happened.
"Bottling up your emotions isn't healthy."
She knows she has a temper, and she wants to work on it.
She's aware she isn't perfect. She knows she has flaws.
But she's willing to work on them with you.
Because she loves you and can't imagine a world without you.
It's very rare that Adam gets upset.
He's usually very mild-mannered and calm.
Being one of the more mature survivors, he knows how to control his emotions.
However, like everyone else, he has his breaking point.
And, well it's very hard to reach that breaking point, it is achievable.
He's always around to lend an ear or help anybody in need.
But, the stress does get to him occasionally.
Adam is the one who is usually mediating fights between other survivors.
But when he's upset, he isn't going to be helping anyone.
If anything, he'll make it worse.
But he isn't doing it on purpose.
When he gets upset he's very short and sarcastic.
And that usually creates more tension.
He isn't one to yell, instead, he'll try and seclude himself or give very short snippy answers.
Or, he'll give you the silent treatment.
He won't let you know that he's upset. He doesn't want to start a verbal argument with you.
Mostly because he knows it won't fix anything.
If you passed him enough, he may snap at you.
"Yes, I'm angry. Now could you leave me the fuck alone?"
He won't shout, but he'll be very stern.
Like he talks through his teeth and tries not to yell.
It's better to just let him have his alone time.
After he's calmed down, he'll return to you and apologize for his behavior.
He'll want to discuss what had happened and what led up to the chain of events.
And how things could have played out better.
This is to improve your relationship for the future.
It may seem unnecessary at the moment. But it's only because Adam loves you and never wants to lose you.