I want to say something about spell jars
Why do we put our manifestations, goals, or desired outcome in a jar that we then seal and forget? Won't that just seal the idea away...?
This is no hate or judgement, I have been an avid jar user cause fuck I love a good but after reflecting and mediating with my self love jar I made back in October when I was first assessed for mental health treatment.
I knew what I needed was self love and acceptance but I didn't want to actually get better but I could make a cool looking jar with the intention of self love anyways.
So I made a jar, actually in a beautiful crystal sweets bowl and I vowed to never opened it till I loved myself.
I opened it last week, it still smells and looks beautiful, I changed the note, I cleansed it and changed or added a few more things and now keep the lid half off.
So this experience has changed my mind on spell jars.
I only seal something I want to keep or already have/feel and want to keep it around or vice versa, a spell jar to hex a mental illness perhaps...
I have more exploring of this idea but I wanted to share so I remember to write it in BOS :)












