#duedate

[downeyrobjr]

[cats-tats-recovery]

On Thursday July 25th 2019 at 9:33am weighing only 3lbs we welcomed our sweet Leo Benson into this world 80 days before his due date. It was the most terrifying but most beautiful day of my life. Happy due date, my sweet boy. We cannot believe how much you’ve grown. We had already picked out the name Leo even though you weren’t due until October 13th. You said we were crazy and if we were gonna name you that you might as well come during Leo season and prove that you were as strong as your name. 
“If size really mattered the elephant would be the king of the jungle.” 🦁
#duedatesaredumb #duedate #preemie #leobenson #nicuwarrior #leo #happyduedate https://www.instagram.com/p/B3jPCsUBlsO/?igshid=1b934rj0lo37w

[letsrelivetomorrow]

With my due date approaching I feel like I should give body more gratitude than what i have been.

For 9 months I have created, looked after and kept safe my baby girl.

I have watched my body change dramatically, and I've really struggled with it! From being someone who used to try best to keep myself fit and in shape, to having no control over my body, bigger belly, bigger face, swollen legs, arms and feet.

But I've done something absolutely amazing, dont get me wrong, I havnt really enjoyed being pregnant and cant wait for it to be over, but I am now grateful that my body has allowed me to become a mother.

[indyaleigh]

Joie Sansa 2-in-1💙🧸 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀All I’ve thought about since 3am this morning was putting together my @joie_global soother. I literally put it together about 20 minutes ago and it only took under 10 mins to do!! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I think this rocket is amazing, it has different setting to allow it to swing from left to right or in a circular motion, it includes music and nature sounds, it can also be set up to use a gentle vibrate option. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Amazing @joie_global I cant wait for little man to get here and get using it 😄10/10 for looks!! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀#mummy #mumblogger #mummyblog #joie #sansa #rocker #baby #babygram #love #34weekspregnant #pregnancyblog #pregnancyjournal #pregnancydiary #maybaby #duedate #babyprepping #mumtobe2019 (at London, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwEYceMAtVI/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jenzixbttth0

[neo3703]

#CharlieSheen сьогодні святкує 53-й день народження. Вітаємо! #Birthday #Platoon #Friends #HotShots #MacheteKills #BeingJohnMalkovich #TwoandaHalfMen #ScaryMovie3 #TheBigBangTheory #DueDate #ScaryMovie5 #WallStreet https://www.instagram.com/p/BnRotVoBkkW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mackv8ox2ktb

[cedarmarkers]

[resourcefulravenclaw-blog]

I’m absolutely OBSESSED with my new agenda!! The feeling you get when you don’t forget things and accomplish everything on your list empowers personal motivation on a whole new level! 

 What I like to do is: 

Write down important dates as soon as hear of one 

List my homework (in order of importance/due date) 

List things I’ve done that day

 For example: Today I... read a book, worked out, got new prescription glasses, met my fit bit goal, cleaned my room etc.

Give yourself some credit, even if it’s for little things. It gives me a sense of productiveness and allows me to see what I need to do without pressuring myself. 

Honestly, write down anything and everything because even if it’s relating to something months away, you may forget!

[doulacollective]

Letting Go of “Due Dates”

by Kira

It’s no surprise that in such a busy, fast paced culture we even have “due dates” for our babies. However unlike work projects, there is no real deadline for babies- they’re babies!

There is a lot of conversation around the accuracy of due dates (are ultrasounds more effective? Is 40 weeks actually the length of a “normal” pregnancy?) but for the most part, “doctors, midwives, and online due date calculators use Naegele’s rule to figure out an estimated due date (EDD). Naegele’s rule assumes that you had a 28-day menstrual cycle, and that you ovulated exactly on the 14th day of your cycle (Note: some health care providers will adjust your due date for longer or shorter menstrual cycles). To calculate your EDD according to Naegele’s rule, you add 7 days to the first day of your last period, and then count forward 9 months (or count backwards 3 months). This is equal to counting forward 280 days from the date of your last period. (an excerpt from Evidence Based Birth- Due Dates)”

Even if you know the exact date that you conceived, there is evidence suggesting that the “due date” is actually 3-5 days after 40 weeks. As you can tell, there is a lot of room for variation using this method.

Only 5% of babies are born on their due dates. That means that 95% of babies are born before or after their due dates. In fact, the average first time baby is born 5 days after their due date.

The majority of parents that I’ve worked with shift into a state of concern when they pass their due date. And it’s with good reason! In our culture, it is incredibly rare to let pregnant people go past 42 weeks. And most people prefer not to be induced if they can avoid it.

So, what do we do about it?

Here’s my proposal:

1)    Call it a “guess date”. Heck, call it a “guess month!” Or, at the very least, an “estimated due date”.

2)    Emotionally prepare to welcome baby ANYTIME between 37-42 weeks. Have your bags packed by 37 weeks (if you’re birthing in the hospital or birth centre), but don’t expect baby to arrive before 42 weeks!

3)    Refer family and friends to the statistics in this post early enough in your pregnancy that they get the idea- babies do not arrive “on time”. A huge part of the pressure is family and friends. Be proactive and let them know about the MONTH that you may be waiting for baby to make their guest appearance.

http://www.ontariomidwives.ca/images/uploads/client-resources/Postdates-Final.pdf

https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-on-inducing-labor-for-going-past-your-due-date/