#dysfunctional behavior

[the-healing-mindset]

Sometimes, we get brought up in environments that keep us attached to the dysfunctional behaviors in those around us. We feel compelled to be their "keeper", looking after them and making sure they don't cause too many problems for themselves or others.

This may give us a sense of satisfaction, making us feel like we're in control. However, another person's dysfunction is not our responsibility. Saving them from the consequences of their actions is not our responsibility. Protect yourself from their dysfunction.

It is okay to live your own life.

[blk-chauvinist]

WARNING: Strong Stomach Required! This is Lizzo. I have criticized her boorish, unladylike, impulsive, and self-depreciating antics in the public many times. Whenever I do, there are black men and women who jump to her defense, blind to the negative image she is projecting. Insomuch as black women, it's not a shock, since most of them think and believe that black women re incapable of doing anything wrong, and are thus, immune to constructive criticism and valid moral judgments. What's more, they have lost all notions, ideas, concepts, and appreciation for classy behavior...and want black men to accept them--as-is. I refuse. **** their feelings.

[the-healing-mindset]

This is true. Those who are dysfunctional will try to convince you otherwise, though. You will point out to them their behavior and how it affects you only for them to turn around and make you the problem, throwing their issues onto you as being the cause.

However, as you heal, you begin to realize that you just need to walk away from these types of individuals. The more you try to get them to pay attention to and correct their behavior, the more they feel the need to make it your fault.

[blk-chauvinist]

Reality Check... THIS is what Traditional Masculinity looks like in practice; the ability to make the distinction between perverted nature, and the proper Order of Things (That is, O.G. grandpa wasn't buying the Alphabet Crew bullsh*t)...

[blk-chauvinist]

There is a natural Order of Things. This order has been successful at working to create stable families, societies, and recognizable norms for centuries. It is only recently that a few mentally ungrounded, aberrant, and deviant individuals seek to upend that natural order, simply because they prioritize their warped feelings, rather than observe that natural order. Don't let anyone tell you that up is down, and left s right.

[blk-chauvinist]

I saw this posted on my timeline as an advertisement.. But it needed correcting.

[blk-chauvinist]

Fun Fact:  Did you know that there are only two genders?

[blk-chauvinist]

Dear Feminists & Alphabet Soup Crowd:

In order to fancy yourselves the equal of men, you must first learn to grasp the concept of consistent logic.