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@the-healing-mindset
When you let go of so much all at one time, it may leave you feeling a bit lost and empty at first. This can be scary because we're used to having so much weighing us down in our minds.
Allow yourself to become accustomed to the space that has opened up for you. You don't necessarily have to fill it again, but this time, you can choose to fill it with good things.
Don't get in your own way! We can get so accustomed to things going bad for us in some way or another that we begin dreaming up all of the potential possibilities and subconsciously moving ourselves toward one or two of them. When you're grounded, you can be aware of what may or may not happen and keep yourself locked in toward your goals.
Putting immense pressure on ourselves may be something that we see is "noble" or as a form of humility. We're hard on ourselves before anyone else is, so it isn't that bad.
No. In fact, it could be worse because it isn't as easy to escape the pressure that your putting on yourself. In most situations, pressures coming from the outside can be left behind.
Don't keep yourself stuck in that negative cycle. It is not worth it whatsoever.
Sometimes, the most unexpected miracles and blessings will appear in your life. It's possible that these gifts are as a result of something you did for yourself months or years prior. Or, they could just be because you've put yourself on a good path and manifested them. Whatever the cause, give thanks and continue on that path. You're doing great.
You deconstructed and reassembled your life. Why?
Because you saw some traits in your life that you knew were going to cause you some problems down the road. It was difficult, but you faced them head on. Even when you felt like you were fighting a losing battle, you continued to push forward, examine every trait, determining what was helpful and adjusting what could be adjusted, and reaching peace with those things that were just part of who you were and learning how to work with them, or use them to your advantage.
This is what sets you apart. Therefore, when you are in a place where you are getting treated in a way that is less than what you deserve, you know that you can abandon that situation and go somewhere where you can and will be appreciated, even if that just means being on your own for a while.
Seeing more repeating numbers lately? It's all energy.
You're in alignment, even if it does not immediately feel like it.
The effects of this can be delayed for weeks if not months. Down the road, you will see the fruits of your labor. Rewards coming your way that you won't immediately remember doing the work to receive. Know that you did it, though, and that you have what it takes to continue to capitalize on what you have built.
We've reached the halfway point.
Make moves. Yes, you want to know where you're going and you want every detail ironed out, but it's okay to just move this time. Trust yourself to be able to make it up as you go along. This has a negative connotation sometimes, but you are dynamic enough to make this work. You can depend on yourself.
A person who is codependent won't recognize their unhealthy patterns. However, they will quickly point out the issues they have when you are not able to provide them with the supply that they need and when you set boundaries with them. You know that the boundaries that you set are healthy and reasonable, but you can't get that accross to them.
You explained it correctly. You were clear enough the first time. They are intentionally misunderstanding you to mess with your head. Do not keep going back.
You're able to return to a healthy and stable baseline. You don't have to worry about how long things will take to get back to normal. Even when things are not normal, you are capable of stabilizing and making the space for peace when you know you need it. Trust in yourself. You're doing a great job.
Reactive abuse can add an aditional layer of confusion to a dynamic that is already stifling. You've reached capacity. They continue to come at you with their abusive patterns. You lash out. Then suddenly, you are the problem, even if you lashing out wasn't a very violent act.
Then they use that against you.
Coexisting with someone who does this is not only draining, but also dangerous to your well-being. This dynamic can be difficult to escape and to let go of because when times are good, they are very good.
Despite this, pay attention to your body when times are "good". Notice that you still feel somewhat disconnected from the other person. Over time, you will begin to disconnect from yourself. You lose yourself in this toxic pattern until you find yourself angry at them more than you ever thought you would be, which they will continue to use against you the more you lash out. Outside of that, this dynamic is incredibly unsafe and unhealthy for you.
Interesting take on boundaries here.
I agree with this up to a point. I do agree that we should get to know ourselves well enough to be able to know and to manage our triggers, to manage our feelings and emotions, and to regulate ourselves in difficult situations so that we don't take things out on others unnecessarily and so that we can withstand reasonably uncomfortable situations on occastion without lashing out or blowing up.
However, while this is the case, we also need to be able to recognize when a healthy boundary needs to be set, set that boundary without guilt and hesitation, and move on with our lives. Life won't always be comfortable and situations won't always go optimally, some of which we will have to tolerate up to a point. However, when this is no longer possible, boundaries should be established.
Maybe not exactly like this, but if someone isn't for you, the signs will be there. Your life will become tremendously more difficult. Things will cease to align for you and you'll notice that you begin to lose parts of yourself that you worked hard to develop. Hobbies, skills, healthy habits will begin to fall away slowly.
The emphasis on this is slowly. In the beginning of interacting with this person our group of people, everything will seem normal. You'll feel yourself. All of what you have worked for will be present. But bit by bit, you wil notice that they will begin to consume you. Little by little, you start missing out on your routines.
You have to be sure to keep these individuals at bay. They will drain you, damage you, then leave you high and dry to put your life together again.
It's a wonderful thing to be in a place of just allowing love to come to you rather than having to force your way through it.