We went out the other day to go to a local plus size shop to see if they would take any clothes we don't wear anymore and to go to something called the Lavender Closet Project which gives away free clothes to trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming people. It was really nice. We got some new clothes that actually fit and a very oversized pink hoodie which is now our go to dysphoria hoodie. It's very nice to have clothes that fit properly.
We had to stop at a store to pick some stuff up and we saw the halloween stuff and almost eloped for it but wifey grabbed the back of our shirt. 😅
We're thinking on one of hubby's next checks we're going to see about getting a safety harness so we can't elope. Because it happens without us meaning to. We get super excited or overwhelmed and our body just runs off. Or if we are overwhelmed and tired we end up wandering without realising it and we have lost track of our caregivers and panicked before. Oof.
We have a friend who is also working on a harness for us, but we know we are going to have to wash them so having two will help a lot. The one our friend is working on will also have attachment points for our talker so we can wear it. (the other won't unless we end up modifying it.)
We've been thinking about getting a safety harness for a long time because of the eloping and almost walking into traffic. But we weren't in the place to do it. Now we are.
