#emotionally bound

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Five posts ago I talked about how I am now usually thinking of The Love of My Life as Robert's fiancée instead of as my wife. When I read that post aloud after an hour of my bed play with Robert's fiancée, she admitted -- for the first time -- that she now also usually thought of herself as His fiancée instead of as my wife. Then His fiancée and I realized that after she and Robert wed, that we will both think of her as Robert's wife and me as her Ex husband even if not legally divorced. Then we wondered how it would feel to be divorced so that she could become legally bound to Him in a legal marriage ceremony, fulfilling her desires to feel totally owned by Him. Our orgasm together from the combination of thoughts was a huge explosion.

Caption by @hercuntslave.

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After extensive psychological conditioning during my bed play with Robert's fiancée (who is still my wife on paper), as well as covert hypnosis outside our bedroom, I'm more than okay with it. The Love of My Life has me wanting -- even needing -- to support her desire to become His legally married wife.

Top caption by @christinebitg. Bottom caption by @emotioncandau.

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As my wife and I swung with many other couples and also with singles, we often were all together in the same large bed. And my wife never fell into love with anyone even close to how deeply she loved me.

But that changed when we met Robert. My wife quickly became Robert's girlfriend. Then she grew to love him far more than her still deep love for me. Then she became His fiancée, and this fall will likely become His wife.

I have never seen them have sex. From early on their relationship was special, and it did not feel ethical for me to intrude into their developing passionate love. And that became doubly true after she felt like she belonged to Him, and wanted Him to claim total ownership of her. So I have never witnessed their passionate bed play, though I have overheard it.

This morning was not unusual in how they include me. I was in our living room on third floor writing my blog when Robert and His fiancée emerged from their suite at 10:30. His fiancée, who is still my wife on paper, hollered up to me: "What an amazing night and morning! We've been visiting a planet called Incredible Orgasmic Love in a distant galaxy." Then while I prepared buttermilk pancakes and thick sliced bacon, they distracted me with their deep French kissing and mutual fondling while fully clothed.

Caption by @hercuntslave.

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Since Robert's recent declaration that I should be introduced to his family, friends and small town as the Ex husband of His fiancée instead of as the soon-to-be-Ex husband, His fiancée and I have played with that idea. During our own bed play last evening we repeatedly said back and forth while passionately kissing: me to her -- "Robert's fiancée" or "His fiancée" or "Robert's bride" or "HIS future wife"; she to me -- "My Ex" or "My Ex husband." We were surprised at how erotic it felt to change the dynamics with our throuple -- confirming in our minds that Robert and His fiancée are THE Primary Couple and that HE is the Main Man, while further reducing my status. And outside of the bedroom she and I have been playfully addressing each other in the same manners instead of by our given names. Now the conversations in his small town two weeks from now will be easier after I am introduced to his friends and family as His fiancée's EX husband, still best friend, and manager of our jointly owned cattle ranch.

His fiancée and I realize that this new way of thinking about ourselves will induce her to further her submissive desires to feel totally OWNED by HIM. We orgasmed when I told her that her submissive self will be fulfilled when she thinks of herself as His Property. I suspect that her pussy will flood with juices when during their wedding ceremony she vows to OBEY. We discussed and wondered whether her ever-increasing love for Robert, and ever-increasing feelings of being OWNED by Him, will eventually overwhelm and drive out her romantic love for me until the above captions by @emotionally-cuckolded become reality.

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This morning Robert's fiancée is leaving me to spend four nights in his mountain town, so she gave me over two hours of passionate loving last evening (without allowing my cock into her pussy, ass or deep throat because those belong to her fiancé). We were super stimulated by the fact that the engaged couple will be showing off their engagement rings to his family and many friends, knowing that her heart and stomach will flutter while she is being shown off as BELONGING to HIM and being asked about their wedding plans. Robert's fiancée and I also got off reading aloud my post that is five down, about how both of us now think of her as Robert's fiancée instead of as my wife. Then she reminded me that the more that He fucks her so wonderfully well and they spend ever larger proportions of their nights together, that she is becoming ADDICTED to sleeping with His long strong arms and tall body wrapped around her. After she read aloud the top caption (by @stormfluid), she told me that by the time that THEIR house is ready on my beautiful ranch that she might NEED to spend every night with Him. Then she told me that I will be fine and even happy, because she plans to psychologically condition me to WANT her to spend all of her nights cuddled with Him after penetrative sex. And she would visit me during the day to pleasure me. Our mutual orgasm was huge as she read the bottom caption (by @cuckfrance).

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Today, Thursday, Robert's fiancée, who is still nominally my wife, leaves for another four nights with Him. The engaged couple had not planned to be together for this period, until I made their reservation and encouraged them. In fact, over the next 31 nights she will spend at least 23 nights with Him and only 8 nights with me, and I made all of their reservations. I will terribly miss the Love of My Life: miss making love with her, miss cuddling with her at night, and miss her presence and conversations during the day.

I really am not sure why I encourage them to spend so much time together when I'm left so lonely. I know that I love His fiancée so completely and purely that I want to maximize her happiness. I know that I love our passionate lovemaking and my tremendous orgasms before she leaves to be with Him and also after she returns. I think that my body, mind and heart enjoy the erotism, angst and RISK of losing her completely to Robert as she becomes more and more ADDICTED to spending her nights and days with Him. And I suspect that her psychological conditioning and covert hypnosis of me has changed me from her Alpha bull stag into a masochistic cuckold. If readers of my blog have ideas as to why I encourage her to spend more and more time with her future husband, please leave a comment below.

Top caption by @wifesharingconfessions. Middle caption by @youcanhavemywife. Bottom caption by @the-intellectual-fetish or perhaps originally by @modest-cuckold.

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Robert arrived at my remote cattle ranch yesterday, Wednesday. He and I always enjoy each other, and have become best friends. We had a great time together situating his travel trailer as a love nest at a beautiful location where he and His future wife may someday have THEIR home. Then we joined The Love of Our Lives in my house for a slow supper and lots of laughter. We three make a great MFM throuple. Typically, Robert and His fiancée make love multiple times every day, while the same amazing woman as my Ex wife still makes love to me every other day for two hours (though my cock is not allowed into her pussy, ass or deep throat).

It's no wonder that I've happily stepped aside from being her husband -- becoming her Ex in our minds and hearts (though without the complications of legal divorce). In two weeks Robert will introduce me to his friends and family as His fiancée's Ex husband, best friend, and ranch manager. Our throuple is so happy and fulfilling that I now look forward to walking His fiancée down the aisle of a beautiful church to give my former wife to Robert at their wedding. The bottom photo reminded me that after the public wedding that Robert will likely have His initials tattooed onto His new Wife, though @kindredspiritofkink has proposed that hot branding would be more erotic and would more completely fulfill her desire to feel totally OWNED by Robert.

Top caption by @emotionally-cuckolded. Middle two photos by @cuckolding-books-library Bottom photo by @sheerpersuasion.

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Robert's fiancée, who is still nominally my wife, is now spending 75% of her nights with Him, including four nights away with Him this "weekend". I've enjoyed innumerable orgasms (most self-induced) as their relationship grew from play dates, to girlfriend-boyfriend, to a Love far deeper than any ever experienced before by either of them, to fiancée-fiancé, to the fulfillment of showing off their engagement rings and extraordinary love, to such addiction to sleeping cuddled together that it physically hurts them when they must spend any nights apart. In only three more weeks the couple will hold each other as they introduce me to His friends and family as her soon-to-be-Ex husband. I will add that I still love her so deeply and purely that I look forward to giving her away at her wedding to The Love of Her Life. The couple has promised me that she will still make love with me every other day even after she is His Wife and is spending every night with Him.

Top caption by @cuckoldlifeofjosie. Bottom caption by @loveheelsalot.