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My Anger and Peace-Keeping Has Me Scared To Make Friends

I remember once reading a Redditor explain that they felt they were getting too close to another person, so much that they were developing feelings for this other person; and that affected the Redditor in a way that he felt strained, anguished, and reluctant…

I imagined it to be like an apartment neighbor having a crush on another neighbor. They would be holding their back against their front door, remaining out of sight of the neighbor… clutching onto their heart.

I am starting to feel this way about my coworker, the person I share cubicle space with at work. My new good friend. A Type 7 (Enthusiast).

I’m scared to get close to her. With my tendencies for my own peace through routines and comfort (Self-Preservation dominant), I can get quite cranky when other’s impose on me and my time.

Type 7s are fun and occasionally kinda wild. I don’t know if I’ll be able to keep up. 😂

She told me herself that she wanted the bridge/connection between us to grow and remain solid. She really enjoys me, my company, and my character.

I know this will fucking hurt if I fail this relationship. I have a bit of a wall up.

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This is coming from the perspective of my Type 7 friend & coworker, Margarita. This is totally her. And she just got back from vacation. It was a nice, quiet, 7 days without her in the office 😂