acidmatze replied to your post “I’m curious to hear people’s definitions of asexual because some...”
I always thought it means "No sexual attraction" and the "Not wanting to have sex" is a personal thing. Personally I dont feel sexually attracted to anyone but if I would want to I could have sex.
I hadn’t thought of the latter statement. Like, how the “not wanting to have sex” was a personal thing. Like, most of the aces I know don’t have, want or are repulsed by sex, but I hadn’t thought of it like that :0 But I definitely think that’s true.
@ew---people “i (personally) see it as not finding sex appealing. not that you'd NEVER want to. just that when the choice presented itself, you'd choose not to.”
Sorry the format is funky :P But ah okay. That makes sense :0 like, sex to me is still kinda a weird concept and when I think about it in terms of like “sex is when this and this happens” it’s weird. But I’m definitely not opposed to it/can enjoy sexual things. But I definitely don’t like it all the time and, when offered a number of times in the past, declined to engage.
Thanks for the discussion, you guys :3
