#ex-roommate

[day6pilielove-blog]

Sungjin more often than not acts tough towards Wonpil, but he actually cares about the kid. ʕ•ﻌ•ʔ♡ © everynookk (on twitter) (Cc: @marks-hyung as per requested lol)

[magicallyunwell]

Just in case u all didnt know i am a horrible person who revels in the misfortune of people who made my life and mental state worse

[atlawefa]

Our Ex-roommate is a TERF

So our ex-roommate always had problems with Vivian. I'm not even exaggerating every time Viv and I would have a conversation about something, she would always hop in and completely trash Viv's opinion on whatever it was. Even if she didn't make any fuckin sense. Then of course Viv would continue to converse about it, and it would very quickly turn into an argument and make me utterly uncomfortable. It was the most obnoxious thing ever.

What made it worse was Ali (the lovely TERF ex roommate) would always play the victim by saying, "why are you getting so upset?!" Or "you're the one that started it!" And even "you always act like your opinion is all that matters"

This was a constant reaccurance with her. It only mattered when she became upset. This was the same deal with cameron, so its no wonder Ali stayed complacent. She was doing the same thing he did.

Ali and I had a conversation once about how she felt hurt with how Vivian spoke with her. That Viv would blow her off and nod and look away. Just a trait of Viv that pissed her off. Eventually she legit told me "Viv was never like this in high school, all they cared about were phones and video games. Then they came out as trans, I feel like they did that for attention." That was when I had to stop, that was the moment I realized, my roommate is a terf.

In fact she has said worse in text to vivian, terfs don't believe trans people are who they always are. Just because a trans person doesn't realise theyre trans the second theyre born they are a fake to terfs. Terfs are scum.

So is my ex-roommate.

We've since found out that she has a new trans roommate, and actually defends her. I wonder whats gonna happen when they find out she doesn't believe they're not who they actually are and they're just doing it for attention.

I hope they find out soon so they don't have to go through her transphobic bullshit like we did.

[shortysquadpresident]

Anyway, this is a friendly reminder not to ever fuck with me or my loved ones because I will drag you in front of God and everyone.

[seriousroommateproblems-blog]

My ex-roommate mounted her boyfriend to play League of Legends while I was in the room. I asked her to stop and she didn’t (of course, because why would she do that?). Not only is that something I don’t want to see or have to be around at all, but they didn’t even invite me to the game.

[that-roommate-from-hell-blog]

Everything was Fine Until It Wasn’t

The day we met we clicked.

You took a lot of anxiety away

from my first few days here.

It was easy, and comforting to know

there was someone always to text for little things

like dinner.

I introduced you to my friends

because I wanted to include you in all the fun.

Everything in my life was finally perfect

You and I both had our breakdowns,

but we always helped each other up.

You dealt with my shenanigans,

We ordered take out at midnight,

And watched movies on the weekends.

I felt like my life was where it was supposed to be.  

I had the time of my life first semester

I credited you for turning my life around.

Though you drove me crazy at times,

I truly enjoyed making you happy.

I let myself fall for you.

Because I thought you could never hurt me

I counted down the days until I’d see you again.

But after a while, things changed.

You found that you and my friend  had more in common.

She would always hang out with us.

It was fine, I guess.

I treasured the moments we had alone.

You were just friends.

We were all just friends.

I started feeling insecure

and pointed out flaws in you and her.

I started denying anything I felt for you.

I would say things I didn’t mean,

just to push away those burning feelings.

The worst part was she is perfect for you.

People thought you and her would be cute together.

And that is when I lost my shit.

Our mutual friend tested my limits.

“Do you like her?” She asked

“Absolutely not, that’s weird.”

I cared about our friendship more than anything.

I had to tell, it was killing me from the inside.

You seemed okay,

everyone seemed okay.

Nothing would change,

and everything would remain the same.

Except I didn’t want it that way.

Now that I told you, I thought we could

move forward.

But you said nothing would change.

You were okay with how I felt,

but nothing would change.

You still gravitated towards her

like she was the new source of your happiness.

We became separate,

and I attempted to brush things off.

I closed out everyone

because everything was weird,

for me at least.

Everyone knew my secret,

that I liked you, and everything was different.

Even though you said nothing would change.

But meaning that nothing would change

meant that you would still

laugh at the same things with her

go out to dinner with her

talk about deep thoughts with her

become closer with her.

I started not to like her.

She was one of my friends

but not anymore,

because she stole you.

I couldn’t room with her anymore.

I couldn’t room with any of our friends.

I broke off and ruined the plans I made.

My friend was mad at me,

even though she understood me last week.

“All you do is make excuses.”

Tension began because I loved you.

My supportive “Friends” became skeptical

and I became paranoid.

I thought they all hated me,

so I tried to explain myself,

which made things worse.

You didn’t know I would cry myself to sleep.

I turned to Self Harm

and relapsed back to depression.

It was impossible to get out of bed.

The cuts and scars took away the emotional pain.

They were the only thing I had control over.

We talked, but I still wasn’t over.

My friends distanced themselves.

They called me attention seeking.

You called me attention seeking.

They called me a two faced bitch

“sorry not sorry.”

Because I’m victimizing myself.

You hated me and you didn’t even tell me.

You let me believe everything was fine.

You brought my ex-friend to the room.

You knew how much she hated me,

yet you let her talk shit about me.

You told her how upset I was.

And she told you to call security

because I’m a “Loose cannon”

You hated me,

and I didn’t even know it.

I had to know why everyone acted so weird.

I only went through your phone for answers.

And then that’s when I saw it.

All the texts about me, and how you

and all my friends turned on me.

I just didn’t want you to hate me.

I attempted to apologize through a stupid letter

but obviously that was dumb.

Life was hell at this point.

Nothing was working out.

Everyone hated me,

life sucked for you.

What did we do to deserve this?

You took the sides of my friends

or people who were once my friends.

You let them tear me apart

and you joined them in the end.

You put me through hell

and I didn’t even tell you,

to avoid adding to your own hell,

because I still cared for you.

So how’s life now?

I’m sorry I put you through hell,

but what your friends did to me

honestly is just a taste of your own medicine.

I hope you live your happy life,

with your friends who I introduced you to.

So what’s the lesson here?

Sometimes in life, everything seems fine

Until it isn’t.

[thoughts-and-forgetmenots]

She came over today. And on top of the fact that she was there. And I now know for sure that she is definitely a trigger for me. It brings back the bad feelings of my best friend not picking a side. Because. It wasn't like he was feigning Switzerland so she would still cooperate with him. He was actually Switzerland. And hearing them talk outside my bedroom brought back all those feelings. And then he didn't comfort me afterwards. And I needed that.

[absolutezeronow]

several months back, my ex-roommate said chinese media producers would definitely be willing to invest to turn my family history (the last 4 generations) into a tv drama or film.  she said it had a really touching combination of romance, history events, war, hardship, and sadness.  i laughed back then and said there are way more ppl with touching stories that span generations...  she needs to go out more and hear more immigrant stories from other ppl from other continents