why you should stop saying the f-slur if you are not a man attracted to a man (mlm/gay men/bi men)
I use this analogy quite a lot, I am POC, I have semi-dark skin and ive been called the n-word, I am POC but I am not BLACK,I cannot say the n-word! You cannot say the f-slur if you are not a man attracted to men and someone say said it to you :0
You might use the argument that I say the t-slur, that is entirely different because both trans men and women have been called it all our history of being trans, also the t-slur is playing off the word TRANS!!
The f-slur plays off a term that was used for a "bundle of sticks" that was a term used against WOMEN and feminine people in the 1920s, so then the slur was used mostly in the context of "f-slur - carrier" like stick carrier or someone that is flamboyant and annoying anf hard to "carry"(worry about) the f-slur has only been used against flamboyant men since so especially men that love men
stop wanting to say a word so bad, you steal enough from gay men
