#facebook question

[wolfgangamaderik]

Well... I am running a facebook profile for Erik and I came across this question. My dirty phantasy kicked in. A head cannon was born. :D 

[ure-gonna-loveme-when-u-seeme]

If I delete my facebook account, will they still disturb me?

I simply gave up opening facebook for obvious reasons, but if I stay 2 days without doing it, they start sending me fake notifications messages to try to make me curious, so i just make a quick login and leave, otherwise the fake notifications will grow as a snowball (i usually receive a poor tiny notification each 2 weeks or more, but if I stay away for 2 days it seems I become more important and start  receiving a lot of “cool stuff I simply cannot miss!” ¬¬). I am afraid that if I delete it they will annoy me even worse, but now to try to convince me to come back. Does anyone know it?

[kalichica12]

[stimulateyoursenses]

Does anyone know how to turn off top comments on Facebook posts from showing? 

I liked HuffPost and stuff like that and reading comments on anything gives me really bad anxiety because people are so awful and rude and I don’t want to see it! I just liked it when facebook had comments hidden and I had to willingly click  on the “comments” link to look at them.

Does anyone know if there is a way to change it back?

[countrypassionlove]

Facebook question

What’s on my mind? Well to answer that question a lot of things and emotions right now. Work was good today, but then getting alone and all of a sudden the thoughts just came rushing into my brain. Missing people, thinking of things that have been done in the past, thinking of why people can’t get along, getting my license and getting a car and doing things on my own, and finally just people in general! Some of these are thoughts that go through my mind plenty of times during the day time and night time.

We judge others way to harshly, we don’t give others a chance when they need it the most, and sometimes we don’t even listen to the people we love to pieces because they actually care about us and don’t want to see us hurting, but honestly how are we supposed to make our own mistakes and learn from them ourselves when all people do is tell us what we did wrong and try to bring us back to the right road. Honestly what is the right road? Because I don’t think there is one, this world is going to shit anyways so why don’t we make the best of it and have some fun while we are still alive!

I guess with all this ranting I am just trying to say that I know me more than anyone else and that I do know what is right and what is wrong. I don’t need to be told everything I do is wrong or everything I do is right. I am my own person you can’t control me from everything, you can’t keep me from not seeing people that I want to see! For god sakes I am frigin twenty years old and you guys treat me like a frigin five year old!!

[ranting-24-7]

"Why do you like yaoi?"

The reason I like yaoi so much is because I find it much more harder to make it... work... I don't really know how to express it right...

Give me a second...

I guess, from personal experience, what I've seen is that in hetero relationships, most people are rooting for them, or want them apart because another chick wants the guy or another guy wants the chick.

But in yoai, there's usually that "I'm not gay!" aspect, and the character slowly starts getting over that.

The process of those kinds of characters finally coming to terms with and then later admitting their feelings, THAT'S what I like about yaoi so much.

I believe that love is love regardless of gender.

Character A could be straight all of his/her life, but then one day A meets a certain person of the same gender. Either B is really into A, or there's something about B that makes him/her so magnetizing. Be it his/her eye's, lips, personality, or just the person he/she is.

I find more value and get much more emotionally involved with those kinds of stories, where the relationship is kind of not supposed to work, but it does.

For instance (this example is not canon nor is it from a manga), Destiel.

Dean and Cas have been around each other for the past 6 years. Their relationship was supposed to simply be a relationship where one is the guardian and gets him to do what a higher authority wants, while the other does it because he feels like he owes that person or because that's just the kind of person he is. (Dean WAS the "righteous man" after all).

But soon their relationship started blurring ("I got too attached to the people in my charge. You.")

And things started getting a little awkward. ("Cas... We talked about this. Personal space...")

And not too long later, they started telling each other "I need you" in one way or another.

Dean spent a hell of a lot more time in Purgatory than he needed to because he refused to leave without Cas. He even made himself think it was his OWN fault that Cas did it make it back because he refused to accept that Cas wanted to stay.

Cas fell from grace because of Dean. Became human. Continually let himself get to the brink of death (and actually DIED a couple of times) just for Dean!

And did I mention that during a civil war, he let a huge chunk of his army die for Dean?

And that he gave EVERYTHING up for Dean?

Human/angel relationships shouldn't work. Yet THEY do.

Have they admitted their feelings? Out loud no. But looking at how much they care for each other, and what they do for each other. What makes them tick and what they remember when they make certain choices. It's really clear. Either they love each other but are scared the other doesn't, or they just won't admit it because any time anything goes good for them, things always go south...

I'm SO emotionally involved with Destiel, it's not even funny. It literally brings me to tears whenever Destiel things (whether good or bad) happen.

Now, with official yaoi items, there's more of that... self-satisfaction I guess you can say.

Let's look at Junjou Romantica.

Misaki and Usagi. Usagi is that kind of lover that makes you feel special. You are his world and he wants to protect you from everything. He wants to make sure everything is good. He will make you part of his fantasies (living a normal life since he never had a loving childhood) just because he loves  you so much and you fill that void he was missing.

Misaki always considered himself straight until Usagi. And even time after time after time of them being intimate and him wanting to say I love you, Misaki still fought it. He constantly would tell himself "I'm not gay, I'm not gay, I'm not gay!" But even he admitted that he did care for Usagi. And even he admitted when he was jealous when he thought Usagi was with his editor. And even he refused to let anyone else be with Usagi (that "friend" who had a thing for Usagi, and tried to guilt trip Usagi into being with him). And even HE let himself attempt to make one of Usagi's fantasies (Misaki being the assertive one and leading their intimate experience for Usagi's birthday) come true!

They love each other, and seeing that process of Misaki finally accepting how he felt, seeing Usagi slowly let himself really show a softer side, THAT'S what I love about yoai so much.

Another example would be Nowaki and Hero-san. I can relate so much to Hero-san's unrequited love when he first met Nowaki. I too had been at a point in my life where I really REALLY cared for someone, but was too prideful to admit that it hurt when it really hit me that he loved someone else. So seeing Hero's journey with Nowaki, it gave me a way to second-handly experience meeting someone that could make me feel loved, and could help me change for the better.

Personally, as much as I love Usagi and Misaki's story, my favorite will forever be Hero and Nowaki's story  because I relate so much more to their beginning than I do to Misaki's.

So, to sum it up (because I just realized how long this was), the reason I like yaoi so much is because their stories are more impactful to me. I relate more to their stories than I can to any hetero couple, and I get much more emotionally involved with them. 

I love hetero stories, but same-gender stories will always be number one in my heart.

[queeneve84]

so I think I've asked this before, but is there a way to block someones name from facebook.  They're not my friends, clearly, just seeing their names pisses me off.  It's not a matter of hiding their posts, I don't want to see any photos, text posts, or pictures that they are tagged in.  Can't their names be replaced with, like, pound signs or something?

[always-broken-by-you]

What facebook should be asking.

Instead of "What's on your mind?" It should be : " What should you post appropriately so that people won't judge you or your life?"