Fact-folks, you are not harming your source by writing RPF (Real Person Fiction) of yourselves and your sourcemates.
Fact-folks meaning: factives, factual introjects, factkin/factualkins, fact DAs, fact endels, factchains, facthearted/synpaths, factlinks, and others I haven't mentioned,
Yes, (general we) we know that public figures are often uncomfortable with RPF. That is why RPF writers, whether or not they have a fact-identity, should not show it to them directly.
But writing it in the peace of your own devices or books? Posting it to AO3 or not at all? That's not hurting them. It's also not "causing alterhumans to be invalidated" or "reducing real people into fiction". Biopic writers, biographers, gossip tabloids, etc. do it all the time, sometimes full of misinformation, even, and they have a much wider reach than fanfic-style RPF.
It's okay to write down your own experiences and/or (exo)memories in narrative form, even if it seems like fiction to others, even if others can't accept it. Yes, even if your gender and orientation is different, yes, even if you're partnered with a different person, or died earlier, or any other canon divergence.
Writing RPF (even if you're canon divergent!) does not invalidate your identity. It's not inherently harmful. You don't deserve to be harassed for that.
~ Mod Reaper









