Who asks the other on dates: Dimitri without a doubt. Shade would be too embarrassed to even try.Who is the bigger cuddler: Dimitri, but when Shade’s drunk, he’s a huge cuddler.Who initiates holding hands more often: Dimitri in public, Shade at home.Who remembers anniversaries: They both do, but Shade would be the one to bring it up first.Who is more possessive: Dimitri 100%Who gets more jealous: Shade can be rather insecure about himself, so he gets jealous fairly easily. Dimitri is much more confident than Shade.Who is more protective: Both are protective about the other. Dimitri would be the one to actually step in front of Shade to protect him.Who is more likely to cheat: Neither. Who initiates sexy times the most: Dimitri is a horn dog at essentially all times.Who dislikes PDA the most: Shade gets flustered easily, so he forbids Dimitri from it. That doesn’t stop Dimitri though.Who kills the spider: Both, but Shade is more likely to actually get to killing it.Who asks the the other to marry them: Dimitri.Who buys the other flowers or gifts: Dimitri always buys extravagant gifts, but Shade would be the one to get flowers and other heart-felt gifts for Dimitri.Who would bring up possibly having kids: Shade would be the one to bring it up, most likely after he’s had too much to drink.Who is more nervous to meet the parents: Both. Shade since Dimitri’s parents have very high standards, and Dimitri since Shade’s mother is not exactly the greatest of people.Who sleeps on the couch when the other is angry: Dimitri. Shade doesn’t like to admit that he’s wrong and Dimitri is fully aware of that.Who tries to make up first after arguments: Shade since Dimitri knows to give Shade space when he’s truly mad and Shade always feels bad about it afterwards.Who tells the other they love them more often: Dimitri shamelessly announces his love to Shade on a regular basis.